"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Im in very akward situation.. I have 2 weeks left of classes in my AS degree program..Currently i have a class in the evening. There are 4 girls that catch my eye. and im pretty sure i catch theirs. 1 girl i already got her #. Another 1 im going out with this Saturday, and i have her # so we should have fun in the summer.

But the last 2 are very hard to get a convo with because i only see them in class. I havent spoken to any of them but they bot h gave me a smile before in class, and 1 girl tonight when i was asking the teacher something, she came out of nowhere and asked me what i was asking i was like huh mind ur business (thinking in my head), but i guess that just confirmed my thoughts that she liked me.. The reason its so hard to get to talk to them is because like i said i never see them except class, you may say how bout after class? WELL there is the problem the first 2 girls always wait for me to walk with them. So what am i supposed to do ignore them like i dont know them and start talking to the other girl and walking with her, that would be fine but i dont want to mess up with those 2 other girls.. What do i do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oh come on i know someone has a good solution for this little problem
 

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Uh, this should not be hard to figure out. It doesn't matter who's waiting for you, talk to who you want to man, heh. Get ready early, then of the two girls you have not talked to, go up to one and be like "Hey, hey, (question or comment)" and get a conversation flowing. What happens with your fan club is their business, got it?
 
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