"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DO or DIE!

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Im in very akward situation.. I have 2 weeks left of classes in my AS degree program..Currently i have a class in the evening. There are 4 girls that catch my eye. and im pretty sure i catch theirs. 1 girl i already got her #. Another 1 im going out with this Saturday, and i have her # so we should have fun in the summer.

But the last 2 are very hard to get a convo with because i only see them in class. I havent spoken to any of them but they bot h gave me a smile before in class, and 1 girl tonight when i was asking the teacher something, she came out of nowhere and asked me what i was asking i was like huh mind ur business (thinking in my head), but i guess that just confirmed my thoughts that she liked me.. The reason its so hard to get to talk to them is because like i said i never see them except class, you may say how bout after class? WELL there is the problem the first 2 girls always wait for me to walk with them. So what am i supposed to do ignore them like i dont know them and start talking to the other girl and walking with her, that would be fine but i dont want to mess up with those 2 other girls.. What do i do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yankees13

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oh come on i know someone has a good solution for this little problem
 

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Uh, this should not be hard to figure out. It doesn't matter who's waiting for you, talk to who you want to man, heh. Get ready early, then of the two girls you have not talked to, go up to one and be like "Hey, hey, (question or comment)" and get a conversation flowing. What happens with your fan club is their business, got it?
 
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