"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do older guys really get opportunities for social life + debauchery like younger guys do?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You seem to think my having your respect matters to me. Get a job, miss.
Based in the pics of the UGLY females you posted on here, you have horrible taste in women and pay trashy girls to have sex with you.
I'm glad I have standards. I could brag about banging a 20 year old HB 3 on sosuave but I have a little more class than that.
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EVEN if he is right though, not saying he is, this thread wasn't just about getting laid.
The thread was not about getting laid itself, it is about the things that surround getting laid. The parties, social circles, friends that want to help you get laid, and not having to do it all alone. Enjoying the debauchery with hot girls and some good friends instead of keeping it low-key and alone.
Dan Bilzerian is the only exception I know to this rule tbh.