Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yea, My upper body is pretty good, but I can use some work on the lower body (abs). I have heard girls love pecs!Originally posted by Sentrility
Yeah..Going to the gym is the best thing any guy can do. It gives you soo much confidence, plus people do notice your body under your clothes and it makes it all worthwhile
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yea you have to stay strong my brother. I cut down heavily on candy, soda , fried foods and other stuff like Cheesesteaks. It is IMPOSSIBLE to not ever touch these things again, but just treat yourself ONCE in AWHILE. I have been going for three months strong and realized it is becoming more of a routine and HABIT. However, if you become lazy and the do not go gor awhile, the harder it is to go back.
Originally posted by jakethasnake
flyguy,
You remind me of another previous poster called 'flyguy36363' or something like that, who'd get off by flashing his ridiculous man-tits all over the exercise forum.
He was hilarious, some HS boy with a fixation on getting ripped then searching for approval on this site. Latent homo-tendencies, I guess. *shrug*
Ooh yea. It's always nice to hear "you have nice arms!" or "do you work out?" or "how much weight have you lost?"
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.