Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yea, My upper body is pretty good, but I can use some work on the lower body (abs). I have heard girls love pecs!Originally posted by Sentrility
Yeah..Going to the gym is the best thing any guy can do. It gives you soo much confidence, plus people do notice your body under your clothes and it makes it all worthwhile
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yea you have to stay strong my brother. I cut down heavily on candy, soda , fried foods and other stuff like Cheesesteaks. It is IMPOSSIBLE to not ever touch these things again, but just treat yourself ONCE in AWHILE. I have been going for three months strong and realized it is becoming more of a routine and HABIT. However, if you become lazy and the do not go gor awhile, the harder it is to go back.
Originally posted by jakethasnake
flyguy,
You remind me of another previous poster called 'flyguy36363' or something like that, who'd get off by flashing his ridiculous man-tits all over the exercise forum.
He was hilarious, some HS boy with a fixation on getting ripped then searching for approval on this site. Latent homo-tendencies, I guess. *shrug*
Ooh yea. It's always nice to hear "you have nice arms!" or "do you work out?" or "how much weight have you lost?"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.