"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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** Do NOT sleep w/ chicks you work with **

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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northern_rock

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I'm sleeping with a chick who ATTENDS the College where I work...though she graduates in 3 weeks. And I get along fantastically well with a colleague whom is super-sexually driven and singles me out for talks and catch-ups, though we've already sworn to not fornicate 'coz it might be awkward. Oh, and she's engaged. Not happening...though I was the first aside from her beau to view the girls after the boob job.
 

Zodiac

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It really depends on the job though. If there is a policy where its frowned upon, illegal or if you are in a higher position in the job place then its a big no. I agree its not worth it to have sex with a girl once or twice to only lose your job over her.
 

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It's always a big no-no because if she declines or you do something she doesn't like she can simply say you were sexually harassing her. Who do you think they're going to believe? Exactly.
 
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