CantTouchMyStyle
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
** Do NOT sleep w/ chicks you work with **
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
northern_rock
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I'm sleeping with a chick who ATTENDS the College where I work...though she graduates in 3 weeks. And I get along fantastically well with a colleague whom is super-sexually driven and singles me out for talks and catch-ups, though we've already sworn to not fornicate 'coz it might be awkward. Oh, and she's engaged. Not happening...though I was the first aside from her beau to view the girls after the boob job.
It really depends on the job though. If there is a policy where its frowned upon, illegal or if you are in a higher position in the job place then its a big no. I agree its not worth it to have sex with a girl once or twice to only lose your job over her.
Masculinity
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It's always a big no-no because if she declines or you do something she doesn't like she can simply say you were sexually harassing her. Who do you think they're going to believe? Exactly.