If he was to ask me for advice, I'd gladly show him the ropes...
The thing is I don't really help people unless they ask for help. There are those, however, that refuse to ask for help to the last breath.
My other buddy is moderately decent at gaming girls...He relies 95% on looks however... Just over a year ago, I asked him "how are you good/who taught you" and he gave me some weird answer like "some people have it, some dont" and didnt have an answer at all. He's lucky that he looks like a model, or else he'd be half way up hell's @ss by now. He's developed some self-confidence through that, so he is getting better.
The thing with him is that now he sees me pulling booty left and right sometimes when we go out, and I'm the one who's had a string of steady girlfriends for the past 6 months. Guess what he says to that?
"must be the hair" or "must be the voice" or "must be the eyes"
That's about the depth of his understanding of attraction.
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So I'm torn between realizing that this other guy will NEVER ask for help, and because this one does not look like a model, he doesn't have much of a chance on his own, so I should just shove some much needed info down his throat. On the other hand... Some people just aren't ready for some stuff...
The thing is he's a pretty close buddy, so i don't wanna leave him hanging.
I've been thinking of just bringing him along whenever I go out to the bars, mabye he'll pick up some stuff offhand from pure experience and no knowledge...
We'll see.
