"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do Not Fap!

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Soolaimon said:
When you have a GF or are dating several women there is no need to jerk off at all.

Who the hell jerks off to porn 2-3 times a day?

Do you?
I was addicted too it even when I was in ltr getiing regular sex
my sex life and sex performance improved once I cut the pmo and felt better etc
 

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I take test so I don't have to worry about increasing test levels.

However studies show that not ejaculating for 7 days will drive up your T levels until day 8 when they will then subsequently plummet. Remember, the body ALWAYS operates on a use it or lose it philosophy and is "lazy". It will discontinue production of that which is not used.

If you aren't getting laid, you need to release it at least once a week. It's not only healthy to do so per numerous studies done but it will prevent your body from decreasing test production long term since its not being used
 

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Where do you get it from marmel? Is it legal? I'm considering it.
 

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Comatozed said:
Where do you get it from marmel? Is it legal? I'm considering it.
If prescribed yes. Lots of places to get it. How old are you?

This isn't something to be cavalier about tho...it has life altering prospects, ie, your body will stop producing its own and if you are on it long term you will need to continue for life. Plus there are other considerations as well. Don't take this decision lightly, it has real and long lasting consequences, some of which can be bad if you don't understand how to deal with them
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm 21. Might seek medical advice. I don't know if i suffer from low test, any signs/symptoms?
 

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I'm 20 years young.
I'm a Professional Athlete.
Soccer... if you want to know.

All the threads about not fapping are true.

DO NOT FAP FREQUENTLY.

I do not fap! I'm not gonna say I never do it but I do it maybe once every 3 - 5 months.

Take supplements Magnesium and zinc and (vitamin D if you don't get enough sun).

Your (seed) is your LIFE.
Only let it out when you have sex with a woman.


No fapping will introduce you to a lot of benefits.

-You put on muscle.
-You have tons of energy.
-You feel super sexual. ( There is time when I feel an inner rage and power like an animal. Ready to fux sh!t up!!! )
-Talking to chicks seems easier.
-You feel less emotional.
-You feel motivated to go out and exercise.

so many more benefits...

YOU GET SH1T DONE GUYS.

NOT FAPPING WILL INTRODUCE YOU TO A WHOLE DIFFERENT MINDSET.

WE WERE NOT DESIGNED TO TO FAP.

FAPPING AND SEX ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS.

WE WERE DESIGNED TO GO OUT AND FVCK WOMEN.

I can honestly say I feel different when I'm done banging a girl and done fapping. fapping makes me feel weak, tired, and lazy. But that's just me.

Like I said i'm not saying I NEVER fap. And i'm not anti-fap. But excessive fapping will DESTROY YOU. :nono:

Even when you feel you're beyond h0rny and cant hold back from fapping. HOLD BACK. GO OUT AND EXERCISE. LIFT SOME WEIGHTS OR PLAY YOUR FAV SPORT. LEARN TO CONTROL YOURSELF AND YOUR MIND.

By doing this YOU will feel like an BEAST.

Try it guys.
The only bad thing about not fapping is waking up to clean yourself from your wet dreams lol. Which will happen alot! But that is okay let nature take its course.

IMPORTANT : Take cold showers everyday.

Peace guys. :box:

What's the difference when a woman gives you a hand job blowing your load? Is your seed or c0ck going to know the difference?
 

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Not fapping will lead to muscle gains huh?

I think I'll just keep watching Athlean X videos
 

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Bokanovsky said:
From a physiological standpoint, fapping is no different from having sex. Your d!ck does not know the difference between your hand and some chick's pvssy.
Not to nitpick because I generally like your posts, but your body DOES know the difference.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16095799

We actually don't understand a whole lot about this because of a lack of studies (who's going to make any money off of this? Quite the opposite, corporations stand to lose a lot if the benefits of this were known in the mainstream).

I've stated in another thread that I'm an advocate of nofap as it has enabled me to begin regrowing hair that has thinned on my hairline and crown, I never anticipated this because I was doing it for other reasons, no placebo here. I've derived several other benefits that would require it's own thread to fully explain.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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G_Govan said:
Not to nitpick because I generally like your posts, but your body DOES know the difference.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16095799

We actually don't understand a whole lot about this because of a lack of studies (who's going to make any money off of this? Quite the opposite, corporations stand to lose a lot if the benefits of this were known in the mainstream).

I've stated in another thread that I'm an advocate of nofap as it has enabled me to begin regrowing hair that has thinned on my hairline and crown, I never anticipated this because I was doing it for other reasons, no placebo here. I've derived several other benefits that would require it's own thread to fully explain.
Yes, this further shows your body is lowering its test production. Hairloss is a byproduct of testosterone being converted to DHT and gathering on the hair follicles. There is a reason why people really into the gym lose their hair faster than those who aren't

Your body started producing less test since it felt there was no need for it, thereby slowing the conversion into DHT. In no way would I ever advocate doing something to lower your test...
 

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marmel75 said:
Yes, this further shows your body is lowering its test production. Hairloss is a byproduct of testosterone being converted to DHT and gathering on the hair follicles. There is a reason why people really into the gym lose their hair faster than those who aren't

Your body started producing less test since it felt there was no need for it, thereby slowing the conversion into DHT. In no way would I ever advocate doing something to lower your test...
I don't go to the gym that much. Is that why I still have a full head of hair? If so I'm going to go to gym even less now.
 

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skinnyguy said:
I don't go to the gym that much. Is that why I still have a full head of hair? If so I'm going to go to gym even less now.
Your user name (skinnyguy) to your post is so funny.
 

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marmel75 said:
Yes, this further shows your body is lowering its test production. Hairloss is a byproduct of testosterone being converted to DHT and gathering on the hair follicles. There is a reason why people really into the gym lose their hair faster than those who aren't

Your body started producing less test since it felt there was no need for it, thereby slowing the conversion into DHT. In no way would I ever advocate doing something to lower your test...
This is the first time I've heard that going to the gym lowers testosterone.
 

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I think it's a combination of factors. Too much ejaculation leads to changes in androgen receptor density and conversion of testosterone to DHT. I workout regularly, have sex at most, once a week and I'm still deriving benefits.

One who is having lots of sex/masturbation is probably worsening their condition if they lift weights on top if that. Based on my personal experience and what I've read, there is such a thing as excessive ejaculation, with masturbation being worse than sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FELLAS I JUST NUTTED EVERYWHERE FUQQQ YA.

Guess what? It is all in your head. To actually have dopamine responses be dulled takes multiple times a day for a very long time to occur. I am talking 2+ hours of porn a day + fapping to create that stimulus.

If you jerk it 3-4 times a week thats not bad. Fvck I started doing it every other day since my stress levels went thru the roof. No negative impacts, yet.

But seriously, im sick of this topic, kill it with fire pls.
 

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JohnChops said:
FELLAS I JUST NUTTED EVERYWHERE FUQQQ YA.

Guess what? It is all in your head. To actually have dopamine responses be dulled takes multiple times a day for a very long time to occur. I am talking 2+ hours of porn a day + fapping to create that stimulus.

If you jerk it 3-4 times a week thats not bad. Fvck I started doing it every other day since my stress levels went thru the roof. No negative impacts, yet.

But seriously, im sick of this topic, kill it with fire pls.
Why respond to the topic if you have no interest in it? On top of that, completely making up your own science on the subject that you apply to everyone.

If anyone is truly interested there are better resources to peruse than sosuave, a google search will spit out plenty of informative sites.
 

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G_Govan said:
Why respond to the topic if you have no interest in it? On top of that, completely making up your own science on the subject that you apply to everyone.

If anyone is truly interested there are better resources to peruse than sosuave, a google search will spit out plenty of informative sites.
GOogle does not beat studies and text books.
 
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