"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do normal D.J. rules apply to serious attention hos?

Bigbuttlover

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I recently got out of a relationship with a crazy attention ho. She ended it and her reasoning was that she wasnt getting enough attention and that I wasnt treating her well.

We saw each other 3-4 times a week which is plenty. I put things ahead of her at times because I have a life. Apparrently she didnt aside from me. She complained that I was a jerk.

Now my question is wouldnt this sort of behavior usually draw them in more instead of away? I dont get it lol, what the hell happened?

How do you deal with attention hos? Seems the normal rules dont apply!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BrotherAP

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The normal rules do apply - that is, you give her as much as you want to, and if that's not enough for her, NEXT!
 

Bigbuttlover

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
The normal rules do apply - that is, you give her as much as you want to, and if that's not enough for her, NEXT!
Yeah but normally a girl will want you more if you give her less attention and come off as somewhat of a jerk. This didnt occur. Why?
 

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I think you may be reading too much into these rules. They are GUIDELINES, not gospel truth to be applied everywhere without consideration of the present situation. In some cases, a lot of the rules are simply irrelevant or inapplicable. In those cases, you have to adapt and do what YOU think would be right, considering the general teachings of the DJ bible.
 
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