"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do normal D.J. rules apply to serious attention hos?

Bigbuttlover

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I recently got out of a relationship with a crazy attention ho. She ended it and her reasoning was that she wasnt getting enough attention and that I wasnt treating her well.

We saw each other 3-4 times a week which is plenty. I put things ahead of her at times because I have a life. Apparrently she didnt aside from me. She complained that I was a jerk.

Now my question is wouldnt this sort of behavior usually draw them in more instead of away? I dont get it lol, what the hell happened?

How do you deal with attention hos? Seems the normal rules dont apply!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BrotherAP

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The normal rules do apply - that is, you give her as much as you want to, and if that's not enough for her, NEXT!
 

Bigbuttlover

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
The normal rules do apply - that is, you give her as much as you want to, and if that's not enough for her, NEXT!
Yeah but normally a girl will want you more if you give her less attention and come off as somewhat of a jerk. This didnt occur. Why?
 

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I think you may be reading too much into these rules. They are GUIDELINES, not gospel truth to be applied everywhere without consideration of the present situation. In some cases, a lot of the rules are simply irrelevant or inapplicable. In those cases, you have to adapt and do what YOU think would be right, considering the general teachings of the DJ bible.
 
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