"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do nationalities change ones approach, topic of convo, etc?...

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I was just wondering, life experience has embedded patterns of behavour amongs different nationalities of girls for me, for instance Italians girls are loud, asian girls are quiet, russian girls just want to find a 'man' right away, british girls are about class or status, spanish girls have the utmost confidence in themselves etc...

Now I know that sticking to the 'guidelines' of being a don juan and acting like a man will guarantee the optimal outcome. But are there certain strategies or 'frames of mind' around different nationalities of women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Half full said:
russian girls just want to find a 'man' right away


Haha, nah. You are just dealing with sluts. Simple russian girls dont come to fvcking america, only sluts. Besides, what you think russian could be a 100 different nationalities, armenian, georgian, etc, etc, etc.... AND different attitudes in different parts of russia. You can fit two americas into the map of russia. :nervous:


No bro, from my experience, Im Russian/Armenian, there is no difference. The only set back could be that she dont understand English, but fvck the b1tch, I use body language. Touching titties is understood in russia and america the same way.
 

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I think you are on to something...

I find a big need to calibrate to individuals. If she's shy, it works best to IOI her. If she's stuck up, then neg and bust. If I bust on someone that's shy, she'll just shut down....

As for nationalities, the issue is the personality that's bread into them, not the genes. Asians tend to be shy, but some are stuck up. Spanish and black tend to be proud, but some are shy.. etc. So, ya, calibrate to the personality. And, I do us the "stereotype" as a first guess; it's all I have to go by at first sight. But am quick to change that as I see her response.
 

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Thanks Thomas for the insight. If I am calibrating the principles here in India , I know its a bit of a change . The level of kino as such . Plus also the fact that I'm in High School. It changes a lot of equations , but the fundamentals about body language , etc remain the same. Probably these are ingrained fears in me , I'll really need to approach more and see .
 

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From my experience women are ALL completely different, even in their body language, but after a while you can identify "types". Its obvious that this is a scary thing and people try hard to neglect this by making rules and norms and orders. Or by simply never leaving their familiar circle, instinctivly only contacting those of their own kind. It is actually difficult to break away.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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not accepting that different human beings may actually TICK different, is very similar to xenophobia
 
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