"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do nationalities change ones approach, topic of convo, etc?...

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I was just wondering, life experience has embedded patterns of behavour amongs different nationalities of girls for me, for instance Italians girls are loud, asian girls are quiet, russian girls just want to find a 'man' right away, british girls are about class or status, spanish girls have the utmost confidence in themselves etc...

Now I know that sticking to the 'guidelines' of being a don juan and acting like a man will guarantee the optimal outcome. But are there certain strategies or 'frames of mind' around different nationalities of women?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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russian girls just want to find a 'man' right away


Haha, nah. You are just dealing with sluts. Simple russian girls dont come to fvcking america, only sluts. Besides, what you think russian could be a 100 different nationalities, armenian, georgian, etc, etc, etc.... AND different attitudes in different parts of russia. You can fit two americas into the map of russia. :nervous:


No bro, from my experience, Im Russian/Armenian, there is no difference. The only set back could be that she dont understand English, but fvck the b1tch, I use body language. Touching titties is understood in russia and america the same way.
 

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I think you are on to something...

I find a big need to calibrate to individuals. If she's shy, it works best to IOI her. If she's stuck up, then neg and bust. If I bust on someone that's shy, she'll just shut down....

As for nationalities, the issue is the personality that's bread into them, not the genes. Asians tend to be shy, but some are stuck up. Spanish and black tend to be proud, but some are shy.. etc. So, ya, calibrate to the personality. And, I do us the "stereotype" as a first guess; it's all I have to go by at first sight. But am quick to change that as I see her response.
 

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Thanks Thomas for the insight. If I am calibrating the principles here in India , I know its a bit of a change . The level of kino as such . Plus also the fact that I'm in High School. It changes a lot of equations , but the fundamentals about body language , etc remain the same. Probably these are ingrained fears in me , I'll really need to approach more and see .
 

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From my experience women are ALL completely different, even in their body language, but after a while you can identify "types". Its obvious that this is a scary thing and people try hard to neglect this by making rules and norms and orders. Or by simply never leaving their familiar circle, instinctivly only contacting those of their own kind. It is actually difficult to break away.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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not accepting that different human beings may actually TICK different, is very similar to xenophobia
 
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