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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Do nationalities change ones approach, topic of convo, etc?...

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I was just wondering, life experience has embedded patterns of behavour amongs different nationalities of girls for me, for instance Italians girls are loud, asian girls are quiet, russian girls just want to find a 'man' right away, british girls are about class or status, spanish girls have the utmost confidence in themselves etc...

Now I know that sticking to the 'guidelines' of being a don juan and acting like a man will guarantee the optimal outcome. But are there certain strategies or 'frames of mind' around different nationalities of women?
 

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Half full said:
russian girls just want to find a 'man' right away


Haha, nah. You are just dealing with sluts. Simple russian girls dont come to fvcking america, only sluts. Besides, what you think russian could be a 100 different nationalities, armenian, georgian, etc, etc, etc.... AND different attitudes in different parts of russia. You can fit two americas into the map of russia. :nervous:


No bro, from my experience, Im Russian/Armenian, there is no difference. The only set back could be that she dont understand English, but fvck the b1tch, I use body language. Touching titties is understood in russia and america the same way.
 

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I think you are on to something...

I find a big need to calibrate to individuals. If she's shy, it works best to IOI her. If she's stuck up, then neg and bust. If I bust on someone that's shy, she'll just shut down....

As for nationalities, the issue is the personality that's bread into them, not the genes. Asians tend to be shy, but some are stuck up. Spanish and black tend to be proud, but some are shy.. etc. So, ya, calibrate to the personality. And, I do us the "stereotype" as a first guess; it's all I have to go by at first sight. But am quick to change that as I see her response.
 

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Thanks Thomas for the insight. If I am calibrating the principles here in India , I know its a bit of a change . The level of kino as such . Plus also the fact that I'm in High School. It changes a lot of equations , but the fundamentals about body language , etc remain the same. Probably these are ingrained fears in me , I'll really need to approach more and see .
 

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From my experience women are ALL completely different, even in their body language, but after a while you can identify "types". Its obvious that this is a scary thing and people try hard to neglect this by making rules and norms and orders. Or by simply never leaving their familiar circle, instinctivly only contacting those of their own kind. It is actually difficult to break away.
 

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not accepting that different human beings may actually TICK different, is very similar to xenophobia
 
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