"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do most women see therapists?

DonJuanabe

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Geez. Oneitis saw/sees a therapist. Girl I had a date with tonight said she sees a therapist. A friend/colleague of mine sees one. I know of a few women who take medication for psych stuff. Is it me or is this common among women?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pandora

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Alot more than you think. I have noticed that also. Most attractive chicks i know have at one point seen a therapist, are on some type of anti depressant or have some type of diagnosable neuroses (eating disorders etc).
 

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In the US, it's ten times easier to get drugs than it is therapy. For the few people who have decent insurance, they will often only pay for therapy once or twice a month, and then sometimes cut it off after six months. So unless the woman is rich, presuming you're talking about Americans, she's probably not going to therapy all that much.
 
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