"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do most women see therapists?

DonJuanabe

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Geez. Oneitis saw/sees a therapist. Girl I had a date with tonight said she sees a therapist. A friend/colleague of mine sees one. I know of a few women who take medication for psych stuff. Is it me or is this common among women?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pandora

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Alot more than you think. I have noticed that also. Most attractive chicks i know have at one point seen a therapist, are on some type of anti depressant or have some type of diagnosable neuroses (eating disorders etc).
 

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In the US, it's ten times easier to get drugs than it is therapy. For the few people who have decent insurance, they will often only pay for therapy once or twice a month, and then sometimes cut it off after six months. So unless the woman is rich, presuming you're talking about Americans, she's probably not going to therapy all that much.
 
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