"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do most women have HPD?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Some can control themselves reasonably, but some are full retard when it comes to this stuff.
 

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Some can control themselves reasonably, but some are full retard when it comes to this stuff.
Most girls are not retards if you see it from the angle of their own nature and their own strategy, actually those emotional games and roller-coasters are at their core manipulations sets.

OP women aren't those little innocent angels as most men think of them. their nature is different, their strategies are different, their wants and aims in the mating games are different, but the misunderstanding most men do is they judge women by their own ideas and judgments about what women are and what they want lol.

so it's all a big a$$ misunderstanding

check out this gem from hopsin
 

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There's a difference between a regular woman who loves attention and someone with full blown hpd.

Hpd are the sort of girls who have one drink at a party and get their tits out. Or put pictures of themselves getting ****ed on Instagram. Or worse.
 

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all women have hpd and bpd traits..its just that its a matter of what extent they have it. some rate higher then others.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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well it's like this, the majority of girls like attention to some extent, a lot of guys do too

HPD would be if they were full on crazy for attention, they'd fake a rape, arson, kidnapping, etc. just to be talked about, they'd leak their own sex tape to the internet, they'd jump head first into any controversy they can find(lots of SJWs like to put themselves at the center of any controversy even if it has nothing to do with them then play the victim while getting off on the attention), etc.

back in high school these would be the girls who'd scream and throw a fit then storm out in the middle of class for basically no reason at even the most minor of provocations
 

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I know you guys are clarifying the extremes here but I'm serious. I feel as if a lot of women I've met are drama and attention seekers in the worst ways--like full on HPDs.
 

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I know you guys are clarifying the extremes here but I'm serious. I feel as if a lot of women I've met are drama and attention seekers in the worst ways--like full on HPDs.
lol, that's called immaturity and/or low self esteem - and/or bad upbringing. Tons of chicks have drama queens for mothers. It becomes our model of how you live life - not necessarily a brain chemistry issue, just something we are taught and have no other understanding of how to 'be' in the world. Some chicks are truly damaged from their childhoods and compensate this way.

so crazy
 

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I know you guys are clarifying the extremes here but I'm serious. I feel as if a lot of women I've met are drama and attention seekers in the worst ways--like full on HPDs.
that's what most of them are like yes. but full on HPD is very extreme, not the normal attention whoring you'll see everywhere all the time
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Most girls are not retards if you see it from the angle of their own nature and their own strategy, actually those emotional games and roller-coasters are at their core manipulations sets.

OP women aren't those little innocent angels as most men think of them. their nature is different, their strategies are different, their wants and aims in the mating games are different, but the misunderstanding most men do is they judge women by their own ideas and judgments about what women are and what they want lol.

so it's all a big a$$ misunderstanding

check out this gem from hopsin
When I say "full retard" what I mean is that a woman will defeat herself to maintain an agenda that is not relevant in context of what she is trying to do. Like getting fired from work because of doing stupid things in the course of trying to look better than another girl. Despite having bills to pay or whatever.. I got the term "full retard" from topic thunder. Love that movie.
 

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HPD Girl:
6-10 guys she's sleeping with
More Polyandrous
Random mate selection based on who is around at the time
Likes to hurt people, gets narcissistic supply from it
Aggressive

Normal Girl:
2-3 guys she's sleeping with
More Hypergamous
Alpha f*cks beta bucks
Doesn't really care if people get hurt or tries to minimize it
Passive
Pretty much.

The "likes hurting people" is one of the biggest red flags, one of my occasional plates is like this, she brags to me about the guys she breaks and shows me their begging messages.

I've not seen her maintain a relationship longer than a month, she goes from idealization to devaluation within 3 weeks at most.

They are fine if you have 0 emotional attachment to them. They aren't as dangerous as the other PD's
 

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Pretty much.

The "likes hurting people" is one of the biggest red flags, one of my occasional plates is like this, she brags to me about the guys she breaks and shows me their begging messages.

I've not seen her maintain a relationship longer than a month, she goes from idealization to devaluation within 3 weeks at most.

They are fine if you have 0 emotional attachment to them. They aren't as dangerous as the other PD's
She sounds like a low functioning PD woman.
 

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Yeah she's a retard but she's 9/10 and good at sex.
Good at sex yes, most of the crazies are like porn stars in bed. It's the main thing they use to pull you into their vortex.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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