"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Some can control themselves reasonably, but some are full retard when it comes to this stuff.
 

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Some can control themselves reasonably, but some are full retard when it comes to this stuff.
Most girls are not retards if you see it from the angle of their own nature and their own strategy, actually those emotional games and roller-coasters are at their core manipulations sets.

OP women aren't those little innocent angels as most men think of them. their nature is different, their strategies are different, their wants and aims in the mating games are different, but the misunderstanding most men do is they judge women by their own ideas and judgments about what women are and what they want lol.

so it's all a big a$$ misunderstanding

check out this gem from hopsin
 

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There's a difference between a regular woman who loves attention and someone with full blown hpd.

Hpd are the sort of girls who have one drink at a party and get their tits out. Or put pictures of themselves getting ****ed on Instagram. Or worse.
 

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all women have hpd and bpd traits..its just that its a matter of what extent they have it. some rate higher then others.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well it's like this, the majority of girls like attention to some extent, a lot of guys do too

HPD would be if they were full on crazy for attention, they'd fake a rape, arson, kidnapping, etc. just to be talked about, they'd leak their own sex tape to the internet, they'd jump head first into any controversy they can find(lots of SJWs like to put themselves at the center of any controversy even if it has nothing to do with them then play the victim while getting off on the attention), etc.

back in high school these would be the girls who'd scream and throw a fit then storm out in the middle of class for basically no reason at even the most minor of provocations
 

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I know you guys are clarifying the extremes here but I'm serious. I feel as if a lot of women I've met are drama and attention seekers in the worst ways--like full on HPDs.
 

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I know you guys are clarifying the extremes here but I'm serious. I feel as if a lot of women I've met are drama and attention seekers in the worst ways--like full on HPDs.
lol, that's called immaturity and/or low self esteem - and/or bad upbringing. Tons of chicks have drama queens for mothers. It becomes our model of how you live life - not necessarily a brain chemistry issue, just something we are taught and have no other understanding of how to 'be' in the world. Some chicks are truly damaged from their childhoods and compensate this way.

so crazy
 

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I know you guys are clarifying the extremes here but I'm serious. I feel as if a lot of women I've met are drama and attention seekers in the worst ways--like full on HPDs.
that's what most of them are like yes. but full on HPD is very extreme, not the normal attention whoring you'll see everywhere all the time
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most girls are not retards if you see it from the angle of their own nature and their own strategy, actually those emotional games and roller-coasters are at their core manipulations sets.

OP women aren't those little innocent angels as most men think of them. their nature is different, their strategies are different, their wants and aims in the mating games are different, but the misunderstanding most men do is they judge women by their own ideas and judgments about what women are and what they want lol.

so it's all a big a$$ misunderstanding

check out this gem from hopsin
When I say "full retard" what I mean is that a woman will defeat herself to maintain an agenda that is not relevant in context of what she is trying to do. Like getting fired from work because of doing stupid things in the course of trying to look better than another girl. Despite having bills to pay or whatever.. I got the term "full retard" from topic thunder. Love that movie.
 

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HPD Girl:
6-10 guys she's sleeping with
More Polyandrous
Random mate selection based on who is around at the time
Likes to hurt people, gets narcissistic supply from it
Aggressive

Normal Girl:
2-3 guys she's sleeping with
More Hypergamous
Alpha f*cks beta bucks
Doesn't really care if people get hurt or tries to minimize it
Passive
Pretty much.

The "likes hurting people" is one of the biggest red flags, one of my occasional plates is like this, she brags to me about the guys she breaks and shows me their begging messages.

I've not seen her maintain a relationship longer than a month, she goes from idealization to devaluation within 3 weeks at most.

They are fine if you have 0 emotional attachment to them. They aren't as dangerous as the other PD's
 

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Pretty much.

The "likes hurting people" is one of the biggest red flags, one of my occasional plates is like this, she brags to me about the guys she breaks and shows me their begging messages.

I've not seen her maintain a relationship longer than a month, she goes from idealization to devaluation within 3 weeks at most.

They are fine if you have 0 emotional attachment to them. They aren't as dangerous as the other PD's
She sounds like a low functioning PD woman.
 

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Yeah she's a retard but she's 9/10 and good at sex.
Good at sex yes, most of the crazies are like porn stars in bed. It's the main thing they use to pull you into their vortex.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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