ssj245 said:
Do they, do the ones who get women, do they use their social circles or will they talk to random girls at malls or clubs or the street.
Plus, most men I talk to already understand the "game" that we play with women.
to be honest I would have never learnt if I had never heard of sosuave. Where do most men learn about the game from?
One has to learn to be TOTALLY OPEN to possibilites, whenever they come. Great girls come at the most unexpected times.
Let me give you an example. I was heading to my gf's house on cinco de mayo. It was around 11 PM, and I was crossing a street in my neighborhood. About ten feet behind me, there was a cute petite brunette walking by herself. We both had to stop for the street light. I looked over and caught her eyes, smiled, and started making conversation. We spoke for about five to ten minutes while walking together, and she pretty much offered her number to me while parting.
She seems like a great girl, and I will definately call her either today or tomorrow to get to know her more.
The point is that I would have NEVER done a street approach like that a few months ago. It's just been recently that I've been opening up.
Your own limitations are ultimately produced by a flawed version of a personal reality. End seeing things as they "should be," and unseen possibilites open up.
Same thing with sarging. I'm only 19, but comparable to bars and clubs would be house parties.
Personally, not my cup of tea. Too many drunk immature girls. Have made out with lots of girls in parties, but never really respect them. And have never actually led a successful relationship with one I've met in this scene.