I would say most of the time, there are (obvious) signals, especially if you do not know the girl or anyone who knows her. However I remember knowing a girl (who had a boyfriend) who I met a couple of times at a club and stuff who was always with some female friend who didn't seem interested in me at all next thing I know (to be honest I'm wondering how this all went down..especially the 'transition' part I'm kissing that female friend of hers every other weekend and end up in bed with her and then break it off, because she had a crush on me...I also know a girl who never really acted like she was into my friends..like I couldnt have told it at all...and little time later she has the biggest crush on him ever...I think sometimes a girl might be scared to show her lust/affection for a guy if they have mutual friends or know each other already..if a girl is interested and you dont know her at all, even if she's sorta shy there's probably always gonna be some obvious glances at least...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Do most girls send obvious signals when they are interested in a guy?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ace of Flames
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Signs and IOIs are great, but you guys think about them the wrong way. They aren't green lights or stop signs. They're only reassurance. If the girl you're gaming is giving you lots of good signs, then its pretty safe to assume you're in. If she isn't, that doesn't nessicarily mean she doesn't like you, but she may be shy, like others have said. Don't give up if you don't see little details like bigger pupils or slight changes in body position. It doesn't matter. If your game is good enough, she'll still be attracted to you in her mind. And that's the only place it really matters, huh?
Charm&Style
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but before all this bs....make sure the babe aint a seducer....i ran across a milf who i was gaming on at a tux shop...she rubed on my shlong when she was measuring my leg lengths....the next thing i know im knitting her a fvcking sock...Whata B!TCH
It's good to know what different things like a girl twirling her hair usually means, but like stated: don't over analyze. It's very very much depending on who the girl is. Some girls wont show any signs at all and some are extremely flirty with ALL guys. The same action can mean very different things with different girls. For instance, a certain girl may hold your hand and for her thats a huge thing - for another girl it's just a normal thing to do while engaged in a conversation.
I say it's better to lead than trying to pick up subtile hints in body language or pitch of voice etc. Be flirty yourself, stand closer than normal while speaking to her, use kino and so on and se how she reacts to that! If you're still uncertain pull away and see if she is the one to initiate further contact or if she is only using you to boost her ego without any real intentions of letting it go further.
I say it's better to lead than trying to pick up subtile hints in body language or pitch of voice etc. Be flirty yourself, stand closer than normal while speaking to her, use kino and so on and se how she reacts to that! If you're still uncertain pull away and see if she is the one to initiate further contact or if she is only using you to boost her ego without any real intentions of letting it go further.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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that sounds more liek a friend then someone who is a tracted to you..KoalaKing said:It is very important that you can read the body language of the hot babe that you desire if you want to obtain her.
If girls are attracted to you they will do one or more of these things, (1) Raise their eyebrows, (2) Twirl their hair, (3) Speak to you in a little girl like voice, (4) Compliment you on strange things, (5) Touch you with their hands, (6) Push their body into yours, (7) Look at you when you are not looking at them, (8) Smile at you whenever you smile at them.
Not every girl that is attracted to you will do all of these things, but these are some of the ways of which you can tell if a hot babe desires you or not.
PRMoon
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I voted yes but it depends on how you define "obvious". I can tell if a girl is interested in several different ways which are obvious to me but other people may find confussing. Also there are signs that I miss from time to time because of the mannerisim of the girl in question.
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everyone is different. some girls are shy and send no signals. other girls will tell you they want to ****.