Do most girls send obvious signals when they are interested in a guy?

[mahon83050]

My sister and I were talking about dating and how to tell when a girl is interested. I believe one can usually tell and I base it on various signals (prolonged eye contact, open body language, asks you alot of questions etc.) I told her in order for me to ask out a woman, I have to see some of these signals from her, unless I assume she is not interested.

To me, if a girl is crossing her arms (unless it is cold), does not hold your gaze, and seems aloof...It is safe to assume she is not interested. She told me I was wrong and different women do alot of different things and she can act cold even if she is really interested. I mostly disagree with her, as I have learned on here...not to take advice from women.

 

[Le Parisien]

Definitely YES! If there's not signal, it means she's not enough interested, or even not at all.

But the problem is that NOT every girl who sends obvious signal is genuinely interested in the guy. And more often than not...

Read: Attention Wh*res:kick:

 

[mahon83050]

Definitely YES! If there's not signal, it means she's not enough interested, or even not at all.

But the problem is that NOT every girl who sends obvious signal is genuinely interested in the guy. And more often than not...

Read: Attention Wh*res:kick:

Thank You. That is what I thought.

 

[Charm&Style]

But the problem is that NOT every girl who sends obvious signal is genuinely interested in the guy. And more often than not...

thats why you have to test her stages of attraction

 

[drummer]

They all send signals when they are interested, some of them are very subtle though (some body language positions).

 

[mahon83050]

Some I usually look for: Holding of gaze, dilation of pupils (sometimes), preening of herself (usually hair), does she touch you? and most of all..smiles alot when she sees you.

 

[Charm&Style]

...and sticks out her ass indicating...give me anal

 

[The Truth]

Yes they send signals but they're only obvious if you know what to look for. Experience is the best educator.

 

[Rastaman]

If you guys are sleepy then wash your face right now… you only get the above “signals of interest” if you are Danzel Washington or Brad Pitts, Hmmm maybe luck comes by once in a blue moon.
Watching out for these signals is just another way of adding negations to why you shouldn’t approach your targets.
God I wanna give a hard kick to Hollywood and the “keyboard Djs” for instilling confusion in wannabe DJs!

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

The easiest one to spot is if a bunch of you are hanging out and she seems to shadow you and talk to you the whole time.

 

[decomposer]

Allow me to disagree in part. While some girls will make signalso of interest, I found after speaking with A LOT of women that a lot of them won't give you any signals for several reasons:

1. Some of them are too shy and too scared - it's even hard for us, guys, to look women in the eyes under certain circumstances. Imagine how difficult it is for them.

2. Some women truly believe it's inappropriate and bad behavior and they don't want to come across as desperate. Stupid thinking, but... still - it's out there.

3. A lot of women want a guy to do ALL the work and that's what they expect.

I have gone out with some single female friends who were dying to meet men and would talk to anyone who would approach them and yet when they were standing and talking together at a bar, they wouldn't even glance at anybody but each other.

So... while eye contact is great and very helpful, don't let lack thereof be a red light for approaching women.

 

[Chosen1]

I have to say yes girls do give obvious signs but i can't trust my sister to give me an answer because she really tries her hardest to put me down

 

[OfficeSpace]

I've met some girls who I found out later were interested in me, but their attitude made me think they did not give a damn. I've also met other girls who made their affection for me very clear.

It all depends on the girl. Not every girl is the same. That being said, I assume attraction from the very start, and just procede with confidence

 

[The Truth]

Remember: There are intentional signals and unintentional signals.

Getting flustered, restless, touching hair and things are often unintentional signs of interest even the shyest girls give off. Actually shy girls give off more trustworthy signals because some women are just generally flirty with everyone.

 

[paraguayandj]

If you are good at reading body languages and other signals you will constantly see it.

 

[Phyzzle]

they're only obvious if you know what to look for. Experience is the best educator.

Bingo. That pretty much sums it up.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

I have also got signals strong enough to think a girl must like me and then it turns out she does not!

 

[Tomatoes]

What do you think IOI means.......

My answer to this question is: 3 times pies


Ask a stupid question.....get a stupid answer



Sarge On!

 

[Vince]

Some women give signals....and some don't... just be careful not to over analyze the situation.

 

[KoalaKing]

It is very important that you can read the body language of the hot babe that you desire if you want to obtain her.

If girls are attracted to you they will do one or more of these things, (1) Raise their eyebrows, (2) Twirl their hair, (3) Speak to you in a little girl like voice, (4) Compliment you on strange things, (5) Touch you with their hands, (6) Push their body into yours, (7) Look at you when you are not looking at them, (8) Smile at you whenever you smile at them.

Not every girl that is attracted to you will do all of these things, but these are some of the ways of which you can tell if a hot babe desires you or not.