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Do Milfs Like Younger Guys

knglerxt

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Are there any guys here who find older women attractive? Don't get me wrong. I like girls my age too, but there's just something about an attractive older woman.

There's this Milf where I work that's sexy as hell. I'd love to bang this woman. Almost everytime she walks by my office she turns and looks right at me. I've never talked to her, but I get the impression that she knows I like her. The only problem is I'm 26 years old and she is probably in her early 40's.

In general, do older women go for younger men, or do they just assume that you're too immature for them or something? Would they be flattered that a younger guy finds them attractive? I don't know why, but I always assume that older women would balk at a younger guy trying to hit on them or ask them out.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cougars really like younger guys.

Happy hunting!!!

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knglerxt said:
Are there any guys here who find older women attractive? Don't get me wrong. I like girls my age too, but there's just something about an attractive older woman.

There's this Milf where I work that's sexy as hell. I'd love to bang this woman. Almost everytime she walks by my office she turns and looks right at me. I've never talked to her, but I get the impression that she knows I like her. The only problem is I'm 26 years old and she is probably in her early 40's.

In general, do older women go for younger men, or do they just assume that you're too immature for them or something? Would they be flattered that a younger guy finds them attractive? I don't know why, but I always assume that older women would balk at a younger guy trying to hit on them or ask them out.

Of course they do, but only for sex. I am 30 and banged a fairly attractive 41 year old about 8 months ago (I met her at a bar)

I think we find older women who still look good sexy because they are rare (alot more hot 20 somethings than there are 40 somethings), probably more aggressive and dominating in the sack.
 

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I don't know anything about older women except a lot of them are b!tches, but I think you'd probably have to get her drunk or something cause... you'll probably just get the "sorry you're too young for me" line.

Unless you're superhot and can make her superhorny I doubt you making it past the friendzone.. lol

Btw does she have a family?
 

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Like aliasguy said... Cougars like younger guys. BUT, I would stay away from single moms. They most likely are looking for you young "dumb" guys to help support her kid!

Don't raise someone elses DNA.
Also, for people who dought you can pick up a MILF because of age difference. Remember this; "It's not what a woman wants. Its what she responds to!!"
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Like aliasguy said... Cougars like younger guys. BUT, I would stay away from single moms. They most likely are looking for you young "dumb" guys to help support her kid!



Also, for people who dought you can pick up a MILF because of age difference. Remember this; "It's not what a woman wants. Its what she responds to!!"
Yeah the proper term is cougar.
MILF means Mom I'd Like to Fuck. In order to be a MILF she must be a mom. A MILF could be 15 years old.

Cougars will like a younger guy just for the sex. I've been with two cougars and they were both good times. There are various places to find them.
 

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I personally love older women. Nothing better than a 30ish chick with big tits to me.

I think they do like younger guys, but like Mahon said, only for sex and/or flirting. Older women are looking for dudes to settle down with and raise families and support their lazy asses. Young guys typically aren't secure enough financially to pique their interest as far as relationships go. But I think every older woman has fantasies about banging that 20 or 21 year old college guy, or at the very least, they enjoy flirting with them to stroke their egos and prove to themselves and their friends thay they "still got it."

Another thing I'd like to add, and I think I have some expertise in this situation, is the fact that many Milfs will reject you, even if they think you're sexy, intelligent, cool, fun, etc because they are scared. They're scared of the age difference, scared of what they're friends will think, scared of what their family would think if they found out, etc. God that has happened to me soooo many times. "Valley, look. I think you're so hot, and I would love to teach you things in bed, etc etc...but you're 20!!!" AAHHHHHHHH F.UCK!!!!!!
 

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I'm too paranoid about STDs to fool around with a chick that much older and more experienced than me.
 

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Are there any guys here who find older women attractive?
Yes!

In general, do older women go for younger men, or do they just assume that you're too immature for them or something? Would they be flattered that a younger guy finds them attractive? I don't know why, but I always assume that older women would balk at a younger guy trying to hit on them or ask them out.
I don't know about in general but yes they do go for younger guys.
Would they be flattered? If an older hot chick found you attractive how would you feel?

Don't assume that older women would do that.
 

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
I don't know anything about older women except a lot of them are b!tches, but I think you'd probably have to get her drunk or something cause... you'll probably just get the "sorry you're too young for me" line.

Unless you're superhot and can make her superhorny I doubt you making it past the friendzone.. lol
that s some really bad advice. If you "don't know anything about older women" then why do you feel like responding to this post with a bunch of crap?

knglerxt, i snagged an older woman recently and she is crazy about me... Yes, they like younger men but there are 2 kinds of cougars out there: -those who just want you for the sex/excitement (you make them feel young again and yes, they are extremely flattered because you find them attractive)

- those who are looking for a "dumb guy to raise their kid"
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
Btw does she have a family?


I don't know. That's one of the biggest problems though. It's hard to find an attractive older woman that's single. Most women are married once they get past a certain age.
 

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Older chicks usually know their way around the co.ck, they crave it, in my experience I don't fu.ck older chicks, they fu.ck me!

Although it gets weird when they have kids around the same age as you.
 

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knglerxt said:
Are there any guys here who find older women attractive? Don't get me wrong. I like girls my age too, but there's just something about an attractive older woman.

There's this Milf where I work that's sexy as hell. I'd love to bang this woman. Almost everytime she walks by my office she turns and looks right at me. I've never talked to her, but I get the impression that she knows I like her. The only problem is I'm 26 years old and she is probably in her early 40's.

In general, do older women go for younger men, or do they just assume that you're too immature for them or something? Would they be flattered that a younger guy finds them attractive? I don't know why, but I always assume that older women would balk at a younger guy trying to hit on them or ask them out.
Absolutely! I can speak from experience:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=132526

She will bring up the age difference, put us an ASD, but play it off and keep gaming her. You will end up getting her to the bedroom.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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