"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do looks matter? The last word on the matter

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Do looks matter? Here's the only answer you need:

You don't NEED good looks to get women. But they HELP, they make it EASIER. They get your foot in the door. They can give girls that initial spark of lust.

Same goes for money, status, fame, and expensive cars. You don't NEED any of that to get women, but it HELPS. It makes it EASIER.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good post. I completely agree.

Too often i think discussion on this digresses into a "it does / it doesn't" argument.

Of course it matters, but it's only part of the key to success, and will vary from woman to woman.

What self-respecting woman would be with an out of shape slob with poor hygiene who smokes?

Maybe if your attraction skills are really good, some might... But just imagine if you took proper care of yourself, how much better you'd do.

Not to mention the benefits of that for yourself...
 

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cars - only if its congruent with your preexisting personality / coolness (then you are getting it for yourself not to pick up women)

buying cool things such as cars will only work if ur cool already , lots of people buy cars to be cool, no they are just a douche in a nice car...
my friends have very nice BMW's and one has a merc coupe convertable - do they get women ... NO!

and what about girls who dont care about cars...as long as its is reliable/comfortable/usefull??
 

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kingsam said:
cars - only if its congruent with your preexisting personality / coolness (then you are getting it for yourself not to pick up women)

buying cool things such as cars will only work if ur cool already , lots of people buy cars to be cool, no they are just a douche in a nice car...
my friends have very nice BMW's and one has a merc coupe convertable - do they get women ... NO!

and what about girls who dont care about cars...as long as its is reliable/comfortable/usefull??
WRONG!!!!

a Lamborghini alone can get you laid.
 

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teacha said:
WRONG!!!!

a Lamborghini alone can get you laid.
only by gold digging hoe's

im sure most guys dont actually want this kind of girl

really whats the point of us talking able supercars... none of us are gonna have one of these, and those who can afford it come form the elite socio economic group on the planet so already have a good supply of women ad have high "value" already

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i feel the OP indirectly says to a guy you can just buy a nicer car and then pull more...super cars are not gonna be afforded by 99.99% of the polulation... so the cars people WILL be able to afford wont have the same effect at all
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Some food for thought from people who own nice cars...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=66320
Read Archaxis - post 13
TizZle -post 15

http://sacha.labourey.com/2008/12/16/ive-tested-for-you-do-sport-cars-attract-women/

http://www.motorauthority.com/blog/1033506_study-high-end-cars-dont-attract-women
unfortunalely for this there is no links to the research

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nice cars ARE cool - but you gotta get it for yourself not to get women

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i didint just go finding articles to argune my POV
for reasons of balance i googled "nice cars attract women"
suprisingly there wernt that many supportinve answers, most were lame pointless articles like "MSN's top 10 cars to pull"
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this is intresting (if not totally accurate)
Australian top gear - do nice cars attract women?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBMIoVg8U-k
a street racer nissan skyline did better than a 200K porshe
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I see your nickname is Captain, as in Captain Obvious ;)

Anyway, I concur.
 
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