"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do looks matter? The last word on the matter

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Do looks matter? Here's the only answer you need:

You don't NEED good looks to get women. But they HELP, they make it EASIER. They get your foot in the door. They can give girls that initial spark of lust.

Same goes for money, status, fame, and expensive cars. You don't NEED any of that to get women, but it HELPS. It makes it EASIER.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good post. I completely agree.

Too often i think discussion on this digresses into a "it does / it doesn't" argument.

Of course it matters, but it's only part of the key to success, and will vary from woman to woman.

What self-respecting woman would be with an out of shape slob with poor hygiene who smokes?

Maybe if your attraction skills are really good, some might... But just imagine if you took proper care of yourself, how much better you'd do.

Not to mention the benefits of that for yourself...
 

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cars - only if its congruent with your preexisting personality / coolness (then you are getting it for yourself not to pick up women)

buying cool things such as cars will only work if ur cool already , lots of people buy cars to be cool, no they are just a douche in a nice car...
my friends have very nice BMW's and one has a merc coupe convertable - do they get women ... NO!

and what about girls who dont care about cars...as long as its is reliable/comfortable/usefull??
 

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kingsam said:
cars - only if its congruent with your preexisting personality / coolness (then you are getting it for yourself not to pick up women)

buying cool things such as cars will only work if ur cool already , lots of people buy cars to be cool, no they are just a douche in a nice car...
my friends have very nice BMW's and one has a merc coupe convertable - do they get women ... NO!

and what about girls who dont care about cars...as long as its is reliable/comfortable/usefull??
WRONG!!!!

a Lamborghini alone can get you laid.
 

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teacha said:
WRONG!!!!

a Lamborghini alone can get you laid.
only by gold digging hoe's

im sure most guys dont actually want this kind of girl

really whats the point of us talking able supercars... none of us are gonna have one of these, and those who can afford it come form the elite socio economic group on the planet so already have a good supply of women ad have high "value" already

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i feel the OP indirectly says to a guy you can just buy a nicer car and then pull more...super cars are not gonna be afforded by 99.99% of the polulation... so the cars people WILL be able to afford wont have the same effect at all
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Some food for thought from people who own nice cars...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=66320
Read Archaxis - post 13
TizZle -post 15

http://sacha.labourey.com/2008/12/16/ive-tested-for-you-do-sport-cars-attract-women/

http://www.motorauthority.com/blog/1033506_study-high-end-cars-dont-attract-women
unfortunalely for this there is no links to the research

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nice cars ARE cool - but you gotta get it for yourself not to get women

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i didint just go finding articles to argune my POV
for reasons of balance i googled "nice cars attract women"
suprisingly there wernt that many supportinve answers, most were lame pointless articles like "MSN's top 10 cars to pull"
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this is intresting (if not totally accurate)
Australian top gear - do nice cars attract women?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBMIoVg8U-k
a street racer nissan skyline did better than a 200K porshe
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I see your nickname is Captain, as in Captain Obvious ;)

Anyway, I concur.
 
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