The state doesn't regulate love.
Because it doesn't exist. It's called lust. When that fades, you have, whatever is left; which usually ain't much.
Marriage is essentially a religious institution. The secular state tried to make it work for a while, but it is now in tatters. If you want marriage today, you got to get religion.
And not a wishy washy sect... the women there are the most 'liberal' of all.
All religions are crazy in some way shape or form. Once you let the women in control and loose, you have what you have now. Anarchy in the world and in social aspects of one's life.
This is why people are so ****ed up today. They would rather not talk about their issues and would just rather end the whole damn thing and get a new one pretending that **** never happened, instead of confronting the actual issues at hand. Why? Because that takes too much work and it’s much easier just to suck the next **** and forget the whole thing. That’s why these birches are so ****ed up with so many issues inside. They’ve never had to do any internal work and they don’t need to because they don’t have to. It’s just too painful for them and they would rather just not deal with it. Total lack of responsibility over themselves and others, which coincides with their lack of character/integrity. This is a society’s issue as a whole. Not just women. They’re only a symptom of it, albeit a really huge one though.
Usually it's the woman who doesn't want to talk. The men do. I know, for me, I tried books, retreats, therapists, family, interventions, etc. I even called a friend at St. Pats in NYC, my ex-wife wouldn't do sh!t for the marriage. Thus, I made the decision to divorce. It takes two for the marriage to work, one for it to come apart. Since I was racing against the NYS time clock for a short marriage, I had little choice after six months of her doing jack sh!t in working with me on the marriage during separation.. Damn shame, as I still care for her. However, misery loves company, and that is fine. However, no one will bring me down to the level of misery and hate she was spitting. I even said, this is what I married? Never again. It took longer to get rid of her than we were married.
Though, I will admit, I still get chills seeing her in the streets. We were at the light a few months ago. Geez. It was like I was looking at a brick wall. Anyways, getting off topic. What's done is done. All I can do is warn other people about the pitfalls of marriage. There is nothing good that can come from it. It's like WAR. What is it good for? Absolutely nothing.