"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do long term relationships last anymore or have they gone away of the dodo...

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This is why people are so ****ed up today. They would rather not talk about their issues and would just rather end the whole damn thing and get a new one pretending that **** never happened, instead of confronting the actual issues at hand. Why? Because that takes too much work and it’s much easier just to suck the next **** and forget the whole thing. That’s why these birches are so ****ed up with so many issues inside. They’ve never had to do any internal work and they don’t need to because they don’t have to. It’s just too painful for them and they would rather just not deal with it. Total lack of responsibility over themselves and others, which coincides with their lack of character/integrity. This is a society’s issue as a whole. Not just women. They’re only a symptom of it, albeit a really huge one though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The state doesn't regulate love.
Because it doesn't exist. It's called lust. When that fades, you have, whatever is left; which usually ain't much.

Marriage is essentially a religious institution. The secular state tried to make it work for a while, but it is now in tatters. If you want marriage today, you got to get religion.:rolleyes:

And not a wishy washy sect... the women there are the most 'liberal' of all.:D
All religions are crazy in some way shape or form. Once you let the women in control and loose, you have what you have now. Anarchy in the world and in social aspects of one's life.

This is why people are so ****ed up today. They would rather not talk about their issues and would just rather end the whole damn thing and get a new one pretending that **** never happened, instead of confronting the actual issues at hand. Why? Because that takes too much work and it’s much easier just to suck the next **** and forget the whole thing. That’s why these birches are so ****ed up with so many issues inside. They’ve never had to do any internal work and they don’t need to because they don’t have to. It’s just too painful for them and they would rather just not deal with it. Total lack of responsibility over themselves and others, which coincides with their lack of character/integrity. This is a society’s issue as a whole. Not just women. They’re only a symptom of it, albeit a really huge one though.
Usually it's the woman who doesn't want to talk. The men do. I know, for me, I tried books, retreats, therapists, family, interventions, etc. I even called a friend at St. Pats in NYC, my ex-wife wouldn't do sh!t for the marriage. Thus, I made the decision to divorce. It takes two for the marriage to work, one for it to come apart. Since I was racing against the NYS time clock for a short marriage, I had little choice after six months of her doing jack sh!t in working with me on the marriage during separation.. Damn shame, as I still care for her. However, misery loves company, and that is fine. However, no one will bring me down to the level of misery and hate she was spitting. I even said, this is what I married? Never again. It took longer to get rid of her than we were married.

Though, I will admit, I still get chills seeing her in the streets. We were at the light a few months ago. Geez. It was like I was looking at a brick wall. Anyways, getting off topic. What's done is done. All I can do is warn other people about the pitfalls of marriage. There is nothing good that can come from it. It's like WAR. What is it good for? Absolutely nothing.
 

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"verbally promised"
Verbal contracts are legally binding. When I was told that in my legal class it blew my mind. No one really knows it but if you admit to making a verbal contract, you are legally bound to it if it is a reasonable contract.
 

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Verbal contracts are legally binding. When I was told that in my legal class it blew my mind. No one really knows it but if you admit to making a verbal contract, you are legally bound to it if it is a reasonable contract.
Agreed. However, how does one prove this in the court of law? A divorce petitioner or defendant is not going to admit this, so it's one vs one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Agreed. However, how does one prove this in the court of law? A divorce petitioner or defendant is not going to admit this, so it's one vs one.
They might admit it if they don't know the law! I'd have to see the exact case to tell you if it was a bad judgement or whatever. If there's any proof or admitting of a verbal contract it's open shut.
 

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Because it doesn't exist. It's called lust. When that fades, you have, whatever is left; which usually ain't much.
So wtf are you doing here? Any john can bang prostitutes. You don't need FRAME to catch syphilis.

On the otherhand...You need FRAME to build a house.
 

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They might admit it if they don't know the law! I'd have to see the exact case to tell you if it was a bad judgement or whatever. If there's any proof or admitting of a verbal contract it's open shut.
Link was posted. Hopefully, a man work 20 mil. wouldn't be that stupid. My ex-wife always said to me, you know, I bet I have more than you? My retort, I said, you probably do (no where near). Seemed to piss her off more than appease her. LOL.
 

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So wtf are you doing here? Any john can bang prostitutes. You don't need FRAME to catch syphilis.

On the otherhand...You need FRAME to build a house.
I am the voice of reason. No, but seriously, just hanging out with others shooting the sh!t. I assume the same for you?
 

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Link was posted. Hopefully, a man work 20 mil. wouldn't be that stupid. My ex-wife always said to me, you know, I bet I have more than you? My retort, I said, you probably do (no where near). Seemed to piss her off more than appease her. LOL.
Yeah I read it but I'd need to see the actual evidence. It sounded like it was overturned on the basis of fraud (coercion is another type), IE if you are misled about the terms of an agreement or coerced into one then the contract is void. But there's no comment on how they determined that the conversation had taken place.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah I read it but I'd need to see the actual evidence. It sounded like it was overturned on the basis of fraud (coercion is another type), IE if you are misled about the terms of an agreement or coerced into one then the contract is void. But there's no comment on how they determined that the conversation had taken place.
Personally, I know how people are on Long Island. They like to brag and threaten. Chances are she had him on a VAR and gave it to the attorney. VARs are legal in New York as long as one of the people who are using knows about it. However, I am not sure if it is admissible in court. Perhaps to prove he would had lied and be in contempt of court? Not sure.
 
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