"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DO it wrong untill you do it right!

So pimp its scary

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Alot of people are trying to be 'the perfect Don Juan', the thing is that you will never do it perfect. You must realize and accept this, because it is absolute.

So, what do you do if your never gonna get it perfect?

Try it anyway. Each time you do, it will get easier and you will do it better. You can't do it perfect, but with practice, you can do it GOOD.

(sorry if this has been said before)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey Rate my pic I'm so damn ^^??^^:O
 
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