"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DO it wrong untill you do it right!

So pimp its scary

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Alot of people are trying to be 'the perfect Don Juan', the thing is that you will never do it perfect. You must realize and accept this, because it is absolute.

So, what do you do if your never gonna get it perfect?

Try it anyway. Each time you do, it will get easier and you will do it better. You can't do it perfect, but with practice, you can do it GOOD.

(sorry if this has been said before)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AFCinBC

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Hey Rate my pic I'm so damn ^^??^^:O
 
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