“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Do I want her to let me go?

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Every time I talk to this girl on the phone, we talk for awhile
(way to long), and at the end of the conversation, she always, says, "do you want me to let you go?", I am not quite sure what to say to this, or what she means by it.

At first I thought that it was because she wanted to get off the phone, because she ended the call. But then I ended the call the next time, and it was the same thing.

Any clue??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So how do I respond, I seem to be doing ok, but if anybody here has any really good answers for that I would like to hear them.
 

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"Not really, but I have to get up early, or go do something"

Like Hubris said, don't worry about it too much.
 

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her: "do you want me to let you go?"
you: i was hoping you'd ask me that sooner, sigh
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by jaybeezi
Every time I talk to this girl on the phone, we talk for awhile
(way to long), and at the end of the conversation, she always, says, "do you want me to let you go?", I am not quite sure what to say to this, or what she means by it.

At first I thought that it was because she wanted to get off the phone, because she ended the call. But then I ended the call the next time, and it was the same thing.

Any clue??
It means you've been on the phone too long. LOL

She likes you and doesn't want to tick you off, but you've ran out of stuff to say and you've lingered on the phone too long. Unless you want to blow audio-kisses to each other for the next hour or two (*barf*), get off the phone when you don't have anything to say.

If she says this, it's usually a way of saying, "Either find something to talk about or have the balls to end the conversation."
 

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I use that phrase all the time with a guy I talk to on the phone for hours at a time. I'm pretty sure the only time I say it is when I think he either wants or needs to get off the phone. Most of the time we can talk for over 3 hours and it just seems like we've been talking a half hour. Although we're "friends", there's something more there. We just live so far away from each other that things can't really progress any further.

I wouldn't put much concern in the comment if I were you.
 
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