"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do I text her the day after a date or let her text me?
- Thread starter duke104
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
if she texts you; great, wait a little bit to respond back and don't turn it into a full fledge text convo - keep it short. dont ask her out for the next date via text. call her tomorrow and tell her you're busy friday but you could hang out on saturday and invite her over on sat. (obviously use information you have to better judge her available days.. if she goes out with her girls every saturday or if she's a huge weekend warrior, etc., then invite her to hang out sometime next week).
if she doesn't text you at all, again, don't text her.. and wait until tmrw to call. Texting is kind of risky for "after first-date" scenarios. Technically, if a girl is into you, it doesn't matter - but if she is on the fence (for whatever reason, could have nothing to do with you.. say she is freshly broken up or something), it's easier to be more accepting and engaging over the phone.
whatever you do, avoid being over-eager towards seeing her again. you didn't really give any details so it's hard to judge the situation, but let us know what happens.
did you get anywhere physically?
eckhart tolle
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i dont get this. you bought a girl dinner who has never ****ed you? please tell me she paid for it and not you. or at least you each paid for your own food. please.
and believe me she doesnt put out for YOU. but she sure as hell is putting out for some other dude. you think chicks ever stop having sex? NOPE they gotta git their sex somewhere if its not from you after that dinner. its from some other dude she met up with the morning after when you were deciding if you were gonna take her out for dinner again LOL. i really hope youre not paying for her food LOL. and again i think shes getting her sex from some other dude while you typed this thread up LOL.
aight ill help ya out:
text her like this so you wont come off as a desperate needy loser.
you: Hey, I'm getting my dinner at 6:15 from Burger Planet. Want to join?
aight so this implies that you DONT NEED her to have your food and dinner. even if she says NO you will still get your food. so you did not need her. she was simply an addition to your meal.
you can also be creative like this.
you: yo im checking out the new store at 6:00, wanna join?
you: yo ima go feed the dogs at the park at 6:00, wanna join?
you: yo ima go to this cool new place at 6:00, wanna join?
neghitzbrah
Don Juan
Well, he should say "you should come with me" instead of asking her and putting the ball in her court.eckhart tolle said:LOL dude. LOL.
i dont get this. you bought a girl dinner who has never ****ed you? please tell me she paid for it and not you. or at least you each paid for your own food. please.
and believe me she doesnt put out for YOU. but she sure as hell is putting out for some other dude. you think chicks ever stop having sex? NOPE they gotta git their sex somewhere if its not from you after that dinner. its from some other dude she met up with the morning after when you were deciding if you were gonna take her out for dinner again LOL. i really hope youre not paying for her food LOL. and again i think shes getting her sex from some other dude while you typed this thread up LOL.
aight ill help ya out:
text her like this so you wont come off as a desperate needy loser.
you: Hey, I'm getting my dinner at 6:15 from Burger Planet. Want to join?
aight so this implies that you DONT NEED her to have your food and dinner. even if she says NO you will still get your food. so you did not need her. she was simply an addition to your meal.
you can also be creative like this.
you: yo im checking out the new store at 6:00, wanna join?
you: yo ima go feed the dogs at the park at 6:00, wanna join?
you: yo ima go to this cool new place at 6:00, wanna join?
At first I thought you were bein kinda cruel to him, but then you helped him. Kudos. The dude's got a point, duke. At this point, if you don't know what to do, then it means you haven't really made an impression. Take a step back, analyze the situation, and work on your mistakes. It sounds like you still have a chance to spit more game.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The question you should be asking isduke104 said:Took this girl out to dinner last night, had a great time, had some good convos, etc. Should I text her today (or anytime in the next couple days) or should I let her text me first?
why are you having dinner with a girl you haven't banged yet?