"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do I still got a chance

S.Y.L

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So theres this girl, I met her in english class last year and I might of talked to her a couple of times during the year, and stuff like that.

I asked a few of my friends on msn in the begining of July if they thought she was hot, and then one of my friends, said to her on facebook, "hey do you like blah blah, i think he might like you"

she said back, I don't like, like him lol

Which was obvious to her, that i liked her and I wanna smack him for that.

Now its a new school year and shes in a few of my classes.

So, did that kid ruin my chances of getting her
2. How are some non-awkward approaches to try and talk.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You must be about 15, right?

He didn't ruin anything. Girls in High School are impossible. Unless you score touchdowns, you don't know if you have a chance or not. You got to find out man. You got to find out.
 

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Hm this might be a little wrong..but i think in high school at least...you shouldn't worry about one girl..whether or not you've ruined your chances..i'm slowly realizing new things....i used to think about one girl everyday and measure my chances and analyze everything..now there's 4 or 5 girls circulating in my head..when i do think about em...i'm even beginning to approach some of them at school and shooting the breeze..i never read the whole dj bible..only the ones with asterisks...you should sometime when you have nothing else to do..which will change after you read it

I sort of had the same situation and still have..i sent an email to a girl i liked..dumb move i know now..but anyways..i made it quite obvious i was interested..and she still hasn't replied...she's in one of my classes too but i've lost my interest in her..even though I KNOW she wants me..she's taken atm though =/ open up your mind and discover all the possibilities (girls)
 

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No, I have a few other girls in mind too, but I was gonna approach this one first, she lives beside me, is extremely smart(in grade 9 she finished grade 12 math) and is very pretty, and the others, one other one ive liked for months, hasnt really shown much interest, and the other few arent as good looking.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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intrextrovert said:
2. "hey", "what up"
WRONG
approach and ask:

"Do you have updog?"

"What's updog?"

"Nothing much and you?"

*Badass grin* :D
 

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Groovy said:
WRONG
approach and ask:

"Do you have updog?"

"What's updog?"

"Nothing much and you?"

*Badass grin* :D
lmao
took me a min to get it xD
 

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lol, I got it right away. Haha i should try that
 
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