"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do I still got a chance

S.Y.L

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So theres this girl, I met her in english class last year and I might of talked to her a couple of times during the year, and stuff like that.

I asked a few of my friends on msn in the begining of July if they thought she was hot, and then one of my friends, said to her on facebook, "hey do you like blah blah, i think he might like you"

she said back, I don't like, like him lol

Which was obvious to her, that i liked her and I wanna smack him for that.

Now its a new school year and shes in a few of my classes.

So, did that kid ruin my chances of getting her
2. How are some non-awkward approaches to try and talk.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bling

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You must be about 15, right?

He didn't ruin anything. Girls in High School are impossible. Unless you score touchdowns, you don't know if you have a chance or not. You got to find out man. You got to find out.
 

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Hm this might be a little wrong..but i think in high school at least...you shouldn't worry about one girl..whether or not you've ruined your chances..i'm slowly realizing new things....i used to think about one girl everyday and measure my chances and analyze everything..now there's 4 or 5 girls circulating in my head..when i do think about em...i'm even beginning to approach some of them at school and shooting the breeze..i never read the whole dj bible..only the ones with asterisks...you should sometime when you have nothing else to do..which will change after you read it

I sort of had the same situation and still have..i sent an email to a girl i liked..dumb move i know now..but anyways..i made it quite obvious i was interested..and she still hasn't replied...she's in one of my classes too but i've lost my interest in her..even though I KNOW she wants me..she's taken atm though =/ open up your mind and discover all the possibilities (girls)
 

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No, I have a few other girls in mind too, but I was gonna approach this one first, she lives beside me, is extremely smart(in grade 9 she finished grade 12 math) and is very pretty, and the others, one other one ive liked for months, hasnt really shown much interest, and the other few arent as good looking.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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intrextrovert said:
2. "hey", "what up"
WRONG
approach and ask:

"Do you have updog?"

"What's updog?"

"Nothing much and you?"

*Badass grin* :D
 

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Groovy said:
WRONG
approach and ask:

"Do you have updog?"

"What's updog?"

"Nothing much and you?"

*Badass grin* :D
lmao
took me a min to get it xD
 

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lol, I got it right away. Haha i should try that
 
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