"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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S.Y.L

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So theres this girl, I met her in english class last year and I might of talked to her a couple of times during the year, and stuff like that.

I asked a few of my friends on msn in the begining of July if they thought she was hot, and then one of my friends, said to her on facebook, "hey do you like blah blah, i think he might like you"

she said back, I don't like, like him lol

Which was obvious to her, that i liked her and I wanna smack him for that.

Now its a new school year and shes in a few of my classes.

So, did that kid ruin my chances of getting her
2. How are some non-awkward approaches to try and talk.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You must be about 15, right?

He didn't ruin anything. Girls in High School are impossible. Unless you score touchdowns, you don't know if you have a chance or not. You got to find out man. You got to find out.
 

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Hm this might be a little wrong..but i think in high school at least...you shouldn't worry about one girl..whether or not you've ruined your chances..i'm slowly realizing new things....i used to think about one girl everyday and measure my chances and analyze everything..now there's 4 or 5 girls circulating in my head..when i do think about em...i'm even beginning to approach some of them at school and shooting the breeze..i never read the whole dj bible..only the ones with asterisks...you should sometime when you have nothing else to do..which will change after you read it

I sort of had the same situation and still have..i sent an email to a girl i liked..dumb move i know now..but anyways..i made it quite obvious i was interested..and she still hasn't replied...she's in one of my classes too but i've lost my interest in her..even though I KNOW she wants me..she's taken atm though =/ open up your mind and discover all the possibilities (girls)
 

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No, I have a few other girls in mind too, but I was gonna approach this one first, she lives beside me, is extremely smart(in grade 9 she finished grade 12 math) and is very pretty, and the others, one other one ive liked for months, hasnt really shown much interest, and the other few arent as good looking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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intrextrovert said:
2. "hey", "what up"
WRONG
approach and ask:

"Do you have updog?"

"What's updog?"

"Nothing much and you?"

*Badass grin* :D
 

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Groovy said:
WRONG
approach and ask:

"Do you have updog?"

"What's updog?"

"Nothing much and you?"

*Badass grin* :D
lmao
took me a min to get it xD
 

S.Y.L

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lol, I got it right away. Haha i should try that
 
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