"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do I smell a scam

WTID

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I have been added by a really hot woman on a dating website, she is 26 I'm 42 I would class her as HB 8.5, we got chatting it turns out she is Swedish living in the UK, but she has asked me to contact her through Skype.
Is there any chance of a possible scam here virus attack etc.
Just found her on Facebook she has 97 followers and of them there are about 3 women
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WTID said:
I have been added by a really hot woman on a dating website, she is 26 I'm 42 I would class her as HB 8.5, we got chatting it turns out she is Swedish living in the UK, but she has asked me to contact her through Skype.
Is there any chance of a possible scam here virus attack etc.
Just found her on Facebook she has 97 followers and of them there are about 3 women
Yes, people can get your IP address through Skype. It's best to use Proxy's/VPN's like Ultrasurf when Skyping with someone you don't know.
 

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Frayzer said:
Yes, people can get your IP address through Skype. It's best to use Proxy's/VPN's like Ultrasurf when Skyping with someone you don't know.
Thanks I've deleted her from skype, before she accepted me
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WTID said:
That's what I'm thinking but what are your reasons
You are reasonably intelligent enough to know when things are suspect. There are so many women out there within a 5 miles radius (****, within a 1 mile radius) of you that there is no need to play this game.

If I can't exchange phone numbers with a girl, I don't talk to her. Girls offer up their numbers to me via social mediums (e.g. POF) without me even asking for them. Why would I waste my time Skyping with someone I've never met?
 

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No HB 8.5 is gonna message you online. Wishful thinking.

She (he) is phishing for your IP in order to spam you.

Case closed. Delete her.
 

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I don't mess with online dating but what would this scammer gain by getting your IP address?
All that would give is the city you lived in, right?
I don't see how it's related to phishing or anything, but i don't know that much.
 

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1-800-HellNo said:
I don't mess with online dating but what would this scammer gain by getting your IP address?
All that would give is the city you lived in, right?
I don't see how it's related to phishing or anything, but i don't know that much.
Someone that has your IP address can DDOS your internet, view personal information(including where you live) or even upload spyware/malware(usually advertisement spam, but they can still upload a more severe virus)
Of course if you have a decent security provider like AVG it makes it harder for them to do anything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you think it's a scam it is. Gut is almost always right.
 

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Yeah there are so many scammers on dating sites that if you even have a slight feeling it may be one, 99% of the time it is.
 

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Manti Te'o is that you?
 
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