I didn't start to feel hurt until this girl started talking about liking someone. I'm not sure if I'm really having feelings for her or is it some sort of competitive feeling. We're good friends and run in the same social circle. I don't want to jeopardize our relationship unless what I'm feeling for her is more than just friends.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Do I really have feelings for her?
- Thread starter konmai
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Yes you do.
It's normal to realize this once her attention starts going elsewhere. It works both ways though, if a girl has you in the friend zone and you start bringing a hot chick around....either the claws come out or she starts trying to pull you into the broom closet when no ones looking. Last you thing you want to do now is to start acting like a puppy dog around her. Like Bradd said, avoid her.....or find yourself a different woman.
oh yeah, and spin plates.
It's normal to realize this once her attention starts going elsewhere. It works both ways though, if a girl has you in the friend zone and you start bringing a hot chick around....either the claws come out or she starts trying to pull you into the broom closet when no ones looking. Last you thing you want to do now is to start acting like a puppy dog around her. Like Bradd said, avoid her.....or find yourself a different woman.
oh yeah, and spin plates.