"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do i portray a insecure image?

NeedToImprove

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girls tend to say that to me. also i wanna know why they treat me like **** and always criticize, its very rare to get a compliment from a woman, and i think i'm not the ugliest of guys

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/profile.php?id=10791

you guys keep saying that looks matter, but unfortunately women pick on me because of that, they always find something to criticize in me or they simply ignore me, like im invisible.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NeedToImprove said:
I think you are way too much obssessed with your looks and acting like a chick then caring less about your looks and acting like a man.

What is up with the pictures with the t-shirt rolled up above your chest???? I hope that you do not walk like this on the streets because Only hors or gay dudes walk like that.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
...or they simply ignore me, like im invisible.
Maybe because they believe you're gay? In college I had a guy friend with great looks and would get *lots* of attention from women. Once he opened his mouth and was around them for 2.5 seconds and the girls saw/heard his gay mannerisms they were completely turned off. So something to think about...
 

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dude. you need ti become a man. try working out and gettinr rid of those man boobs first.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^^ lol dude i was mostly joking

but that pic of u with your shirt rolled up is not very manly. that's all

if you want a body pic, have one completely shirtless. one with you working or at the beach or something. not in the mirror
 

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Insecure doesn't mean ugly, it means not happy with how you look/feels the need to compensate etc.

You're not ugly at all....but the picture of you posing with shades on at night possibly suggests some sort of insecurity as it kinda looks like you are trying to hard to look 'cool'.

Just be confident man, like I said you ain't ugly at all. Be confident and secure on yourself and your body and the girls will flock to ya. :D
 

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i think its a little odd to have chest shots of dudes on your profile.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
girls tend to say that to me. also i wanna know why they treat me like **** and always criticize, its very rare to get a compliment from a woman, and i think i'm not the ugliest of guys

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/profile.php?id=10791

you guys keep saying that looks matter, but unfortunately women pick on me because of that, they always find something to criticize in me or they simply ignore me, like im invisible.
Dude, Honestly your not cut up enough to show your body like that. Im pretty ripped myself but i dont take pics with my shirt pulled up half way, seems pretty gay. Get ripped first and then take pics of ya body with the shirt off or else u might as well wear a tutu in your pics. Plus seems like your trying too hard.
 

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hey always find something to criticize in me or they simply ignore me, like im invisible.
the women critize you based on your appearance?? really cause from what I see you are good looking, on a scale of 10 you are like a 7. Are you sure they aren't critizing you based on personality? (no offense)

The most good looking guy can be the most unatractive guy based on his personality.

Do i portray a insecure image?
from the pictures NO. However the fact that you are asking this question points to YES. You don't just show an insecure image based only on "physical" appearance it is also they way you interact with others, how you carry yourself ect..

example: a confident person does not need the approval of others, if they are pleased with themselves nothing else matters.

insecure: needs the reassurance and care what others think of them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What the fvck is wrong with most of you fvcks?

Young brother is asking a heartfelt question and most of you jackoffs reply with "you're gay" or something as stupid?

You sure look like real men dogging the young brother. Keep in mind this place is to be thought of in the "we" perspective. There is no I. It'll help you clusterfvcks focus on the true problem not the goddamn symptom.

To answer young brother,

Are you trying to be thier girlfriend instead of talking to them in a masculine, confident tone? Also walk as if you have a 13 inch c0ck and it's being pulled by a string in front of you. It'll help immensely with your posture.
From your snaps you look to be in decent shape so that isn't an issue but it's an area we can all consistently improve.

Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact. Extremely important. Women look at your eyes before assessing anything about you. If you have sh!tty eye contact or shifty upon gaze you'll need to definitely work on that first. PM me and I 'll hook you up with some decent material.
 
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NeedToImprove said:
girls tend to say that to me. also i wanna know why they treat me like **** and always criticize, .
So girls are asking you if "they" seem to be insecure and they criticize you? If so then it is obvious, THEY are the ones who are insecure!!! You intimidate them!

"IF" they say you are insecure then that means YOU lack self-confidence!! And they criticize because they can easily get away with it!! Are you timid?
 
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