"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do i portray a insecure image?

NeedToImprove

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girls tend to say that to me. also i wanna know why they treat me like **** and always criticize, its very rare to get a compliment from a woman, and i think i'm not the ugliest of guys

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/profile.php?id=10791

you guys keep saying that looks matter, but unfortunately women pick on me because of that, they always find something to criticize in me or they simply ignore me, like im invisible.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJDamage

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NeedToImprove said:
I think you are way too much obssessed with your looks and acting like a chick then caring less about your looks and acting like a man.

What is up with the pictures with the t-shirt rolled up above your chest???? I hope that you do not walk like this on the streets because Only hors or gay dudes walk like that.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
...or they simply ignore me, like im invisible.
Maybe because they believe you're gay? In college I had a guy friend with great looks and would get *lots* of attention from women. Once he opened his mouth and was around them for 2.5 seconds and the girls saw/heard his gay mannerisms they were completely turned off. So something to think about...
 

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dude. you need ti become a man. try working out and gettinr rid of those man boobs first.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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^^ lol dude i was mostly joking

but that pic of u with your shirt rolled up is not very manly. that's all

if you want a body pic, have one completely shirtless. one with you working or at the beach or something. not in the mirror
 

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Insecure doesn't mean ugly, it means not happy with how you look/feels the need to compensate etc.

You're not ugly at all....but the picture of you posing with shades on at night possibly suggests some sort of insecurity as it kinda looks like you are trying to hard to look 'cool'.

Just be confident man, like I said you ain't ugly at all. Be confident and secure on yourself and your body and the girls will flock to ya. :D
 

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i think its a little odd to have chest shots of dudes on your profile.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
girls tend to say that to me. also i wanna know why they treat me like **** and always criticize, its very rare to get a compliment from a woman, and i think i'm not the ugliest of guys

http://www.acores.net/canalacores/profile.php?id=10791

you guys keep saying that looks matter, but unfortunately women pick on me because of that, they always find something to criticize in me or they simply ignore me, like im invisible.
Dude, Honestly your not cut up enough to show your body like that. Im pretty ripped myself but i dont take pics with my shirt pulled up half way, seems pretty gay. Get ripped first and then take pics of ya body with the shirt off or else u might as well wear a tutu in your pics. Plus seems like your trying too hard.
 

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hey always find something to criticize in me or they simply ignore me, like im invisible.
the women critize you based on your appearance?? really cause from what I see you are good looking, on a scale of 10 you are like a 7. Are you sure they aren't critizing you based on personality? (no offense)

The most good looking guy can be the most unatractive guy based on his personality.

Do i portray a insecure image?
from the pictures NO. However the fact that you are asking this question points to YES. You don't just show an insecure image based only on "physical" appearance it is also they way you interact with others, how you carry yourself ect..

example: a confident person does not need the approval of others, if they are pleased with themselves nothing else matters.

insecure: needs the reassurance and care what others think of them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What the fvck is wrong with most of you fvcks?

Young brother is asking a heartfelt question and most of you jackoffs reply with "you're gay" or something as stupid?

You sure look like real men dogging the young brother. Keep in mind this place is to be thought of in the "we" perspective. There is no I. It'll help you clusterfvcks focus on the true problem not the goddamn symptom.

To answer young brother,

Are you trying to be thier girlfriend instead of talking to them in a masculine, confident tone? Also walk as if you have a 13 inch c0ck and it's being pulled by a string in front of you. It'll help immensely with your posture.
From your snaps you look to be in decent shape so that isn't an issue but it's an area we can all consistently improve.

Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact. Extremely important. Women look at your eyes before assessing anything about you. If you have sh!tty eye contact or shifty upon gaze you'll need to definitely work on that first. PM me and I 'll hook you up with some decent material.
 
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NeedToImprove said:
girls tend to say that to me. also i wanna know why they treat me like **** and always criticize, .
So girls are asking you if "they" seem to be insecure and they criticize you? If so then it is obvious, THEY are the ones who are insecure!!! You intimidate them!

"IF" they say you are insecure then that means YOU lack self-confidence!! And they criticize because they can easily get away with it!! Are you timid?
 
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