“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do I play it cool?

MrMcHaza

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I had a girl who was really interested in me at a clothing store. I was flirting with her and she seemed really interested should I of asked for her number there and then or was I right to play it cool?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You need to play it cool on this forum and stop making BS threads before you get banned.
 

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Ignore Murk, it's the time of the month for him.

Not enough context, but if she is really interested then yeah go for the number. You played it cool...what did it get you? not her number right? Initiate, risk your ego a bit and be prepared for rejection.
 

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Ignore Murk, it's the time of the month for him.

Not enough context, but if she is really interested then yeah go for the number. You played it cool...what did it get you? not her number right? Initiate, risk your ego a bit and be prepared for rejection.
You can entertain clown threads asking if the right move was to play it cool and never see a girl again.

Mods check both of these posters for trolling.
 

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You can entertain clown threads asking if the right move was to play it cool and never see a girl again.

Mods check both of these posters for trolling.
I like you Murk, let's be friends.
 

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How do you know she was really interested in you? Real interest would mean she is a reciprocator, but you didn't offer her anything to reciprocate. You're just assuming. You didn't play it cool, you played it safe.
 

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How do you know she was really interested in you? Real interest would mean she is a reciprocator, but you didn't offer her anything to reciprocate. You're just assuming. You didn't play it cool, you played it safe.
Gotta strike when the iron is hot. A normal person doesn't go to the same clothing store three times a week. If you do keep coming back you are just orbiter number 1000 who lacks balls to simply ask for her number.

Friendly women are the best way to sell anything to desperate dudes. This should be common sense.
 

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It's unlikely to run into someone multiple times at a clothing store if it is a non-employee. You needed to arrange a date and collect her number at that time.
 

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Bro you gotta have the mindset to always go for the contact. We have it too easy these days, with IG, Snapchat, Twitter, Phone .. so many ways to connect
 
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