"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do I need to worry about becoming a manipulative man *****?

The Accountant

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Had a long conversation with a girl from before I became any sort of DJ today. The story with her is that I took a liking to her and asked her to leave her bf for me. She said no. But according to her, I toyed with her emotions and manipulated her. When that was happening, months ago, she told me she wasn't sure who she wanted to be with. And now she's telling me that I'm doing the same thing to some other girls who are taken.

I guess the problem is that I am in the DJ mindset almost all of the time and with everyone I find attractive so they become tempted? I don't go after girls who are taken, but it always seems to become an issue even when I'm not actively seeking someone out. I can count three this year. Is this a problem with me? Or is it not my problem but their's? At what point do I become a man wh0re? What confuses me the most is that I'm being accused of this yet I have one plate atm.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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So from what I read, you seem like the type of guy who likes to **** hot women.

I honestly don’t see what the problem is.
 
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Women have an engrained skill of making reality a distant memory. It's amazing to me how they can completely delude themselves into believing their own bullsh1t.

I once had a chick find ME on facebook, ask for MY number, prompt me to let her come over to MY house and prompt me NOT to use a condom. After we were through, she told me she had a boyfriend. A couple of weeks later, we talked on the phone and she said that I took advantage of her drunken state.

WHAT?! I took advantage of you? I got angry, but I kept my cool for the most part. I recounted the night's events, and she eventually agreed, at which point I never contacted her again. *didn't delete her number, so that I could have our transactions on file*

Never underestimate a woman's capability to be dishonest - with herself and you.
 

marmel75

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Who gives a crap what a chick says. Haven't you noticed women usually end up with the exact type of guys they claim not to like? Almost as if they are trying to convince themselves of it and they believe if they say it out loud long enough they just might do it.

Tell her "don't worry about it, plenty of women love playing naked twister with me" or if you are really feeling frisky tell her they like playing hide the sausage with you or "Where's <whatever name you make up for your c0ck>" and then laugh
 
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