"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do i look that old or give old man / old school vibes?

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You ask the same questions every year and get the same answers. Everytime you get great advice. Yet some time passes and you return with the same exact images you uploaded on photo bucket and the same whiny posts.

Remember when you were contemplating getting plastic surgery because you thought you jaw was too weak?

Enough is enough. You do attract gay men and older women and that's all you'll ever attract. That image you posted of the woman is the holy grail of what you'll ever be able to achieve and it has nothing to do with your appearance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You ask the same questions every year and get the same answers. Everytime you get great advice. Yet some time passes and you return with the same exact images you uploaded on photo bucket and the same whiny posts.

Remember when you were contemplating getting plastic surgery because you thought you jaw was too weak?

Enough is enough. You do attract gay men and older women and that's all you'll ever attract. That image you posted of the woman is the holy grail of what you'll ever be able to achieve and it has nothing to do with your appearance.
i did have jaw surgery. still have weak jaw. **** genetics i guess.

guess what its not all bad. its guys like me that makes guys like you stand out. For good looking guys to exist there's also ugly guys, so it's not all in vain.
 

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Even if you were the most hideous person in the world, what would've you done about that? (Unless you can afford a plastic surgery but still that could **** up your face even more.)

You can't fix your face. You can't FIX ugliness, FEATURE it. The best option here is to improve yourself in fields where you can, go work out, develop your skills, etc. If you get girls then that's great and even if you don't, you didn't lose anything, right? You still look the same way and still don't get chicks but at least you've improved yourself. The only difference is if you try you might get chicks but if you don't you're not getting hot young chicks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Even if you were the most hideous person in the world, what would've you done about that? (Unless you can afford a plastic surgery but still that could **** up your face even more.)

You can't fix your face. You can't FIX ugliness, FEATURE it. The best option here is to improve yourself in fields where you can, go work out, develop your skills, etc. If you get girls then that's great and even if you don't, you didn't lose anything, right? You still look the same way and still don't get chicks but at least you've improved yourself. The only difference is if you try you might get chicks but if you don't you're not getting hot young chicks.
Mind telling me what i can't fix? Do i need a nosejob? Hair implants?

is that picture blurry to simulate beer goggles or...?
as someone said before that's the type women i'm entitled to.
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i ve always seen " aim high" here on the dj forum. Aim high even if you fail. Dont settle for less than what you deserve. So how am i different than you guys?
 

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I'd be interested in the before and after jaw surgery pics. You look the same to me.
 

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dustmuffin said:
He didn't get surgery. Those are the same pics he has trotted out before.
I've seen this guy around for 3-4 years. He got cheek augmentation, eye surgery, ear tuck, among other things. OP has a psychological disorder known as body dysmorphia, whereas an individual might indeed have a slight deficiency (like 99% of the world), but the individual exaggerates and understands it as a huge disfigurement. Accordingly, if he states he got jaw surgery, he did.

The only problem with all these surgeries is he bases his entire value on tiny physical improvements which would not likely have made a difference in his overall "game." The only surgery he forgot to focus on was his "psychological" surgery. At this point, after hundreds of these kinds of posts under multiple handles, I don't think OP has much chance for recovery.
 

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i did have jaw surgery to correct sleep apnea. its' called a maxilo mandibular advancement (lefort i + bsso), it was only 5 mm advancement so of course you dont see anything i didnt say it worked out to get a chiseled jaw and i didnt even get a genioplasty even though i asked for one. its not for aesthetic purposes either because jaw surgeries are considered aesthetics whilst MMA is covered by insurance. If anything the Maxilla advanment made my face more chimp like and flatenned/enlarged my nose. nothing to be proud of.

If you dont have the genetics to have a chiseled jaw or if you didnt have the surgery while kid you wont get those sharp angles in adult unless you do a chin wing. so should i blame my **** genetics or my father maybe?

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i hate being called a liar. it was a small change but you can see my nose changed, my lips and mouth changed and maxilla brought forward and i look more chimp like. as for the jaws if they werent developed before you will only get those with jaw implants or chin wing. remember it a was minor 5 milimeters counter clockwise jaw rotation without chin advancement. Tell me dude i would i lie to you? look jaw surgery vs chin wing or jaw surgery vs jaw implants if you are interested.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you say i suffer from bdd?

you havent seen me before then

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if you think my eyes were better in the first pic thats great for you. everyone sees what they want to see
 

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1.5 cc of Radiesse in each upper cheekbone.
1.5 cc of Radiesse in each Masseter muscle;
1.5 cc of Radiesse in each Ramus of the Mandible and peripheral of the chin;

And now you are talking.

BTW, before you do that (because I know you will), I'm fvcking with you. Spend your insurance money on a good psychologist. Also, what is your total and free T count?
 

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1.5 cc of Radiesse in each upper cheekbone.
1.5 cc of Radiesse in each Masseter muscle;
1.5 cc of Radiesse in each Ramus of the Mandible and peripheral of the chin;

And now you are talking.

BTW, before you do that (because I know you will), I'm fvcking with you. Spend your insurance money on a good psychologist. Also, what is your total and free T count?
will having high T give me the chiseled jaw i cant have because of genetics? and btw doctor refused those Total and Free T, Estrogen and other related stuff i asked.
 

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T above 700 mg/dl will augment your masculine features including jaw, chin, and neck, due to increased water retention in the muscle bellies. Seek a HRT doctor for blood work; regular physician cannot handle this.

Your thinking and behavior are trademarks of a man with low T. There is a fine line between psychological disorders and physiology. I do believe one acts upon the other. I advised you to check these levels years ago.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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