"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do i have a CRusH???

Badmannaz

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yea okay so yea im a freshman in college now and it's way betta than high school lemme tell you!!...plenty of hot women walking around but i won't be here for long i'm transfering to a bigger college next fall...well getting to the story...


There's this chick in one of my classess and at 1st i thought she looked kind of weird....but i mean the 1st day of class she just kept STARRING AT me...and when i would look over she would look away...but...everyday scince the 1st day to me she has gotten hotter and hotter to a point were like my day feels better everytime i see her......dayum i've got a crush....:(

dayum well i don't know what i should do after class i always go the opposite direction as her when leaving and i REally wanna talk to her i don't know im not Fustrated i'm just now wondering on the plan of action.....help me out guys what do i do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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quit being an AFC and talk to her, if you feel like she is right for you, go for it!
 

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I know it can be hard to talk to a girl you really like but you gotta do it. It's really not as bad as you think....worst situation: you stumble a little with your words, she notices and doesn't say anything, but she finds it cute that you're nervous

Hope that motivates you because it's not that big of a deal to talk to her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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brenbaus

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
i knew you guys would say that:D but damn don't you ever find it incredibly hard??

o-well im gonna talk to her tommorrow
Sure, it can be hard, but what is the worst thing that can happen, she can say "no", that is all. You need to learn that women are humans too, they eat, sh!t, and do all that other stuff guys do.
 

Badmannaz

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that's the thing when it comes to talking GoD blessed me with the smoothest mouth but deep down i never think im good enough and i always push girls away....i've known so many girls who liked me and i see it in there eyes....but I'm always pushing....that's why im so scared not cuz i can talk to her but because...i don't know im AFC but at the same time i have a little don juan...i guess that's why i came to this site...to talk about dis with similar pplz
 
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