"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do i have a CRusH???

Badmannaz

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yea okay so yea im a freshman in college now and it's way betta than high school lemme tell you!!...plenty of hot women walking around but i won't be here for long i'm transfering to a bigger college next fall...well getting to the story...


There's this chick in one of my classess and at 1st i thought she looked kind of weird....but i mean the 1st day of class she just kept STARRING AT me...and when i would look over she would look away...but...everyday scince the 1st day to me she has gotten hotter and hotter to a point were like my day feels better everytime i see her......dayum i've got a crush....:(

dayum well i don't know what i should do after class i always go the opposite direction as her when leaving and i REally wanna talk to her i don't know im not Fustrated i'm just now wondering on the plan of action.....help me out guys what do i do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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quit being an AFC and talk to her, if you feel like she is right for you, go for it!
 

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I know it can be hard to talk to a girl you really like but you gotta do it. It's really not as bad as you think....worst situation: you stumble a little with your words, she notices and doesn't say anything, but she finds it cute that you're nervous

Hope that motivates you because it's not that big of a deal to talk to her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
i knew you guys would say that:D but damn don't you ever find it incredibly hard??

o-well im gonna talk to her tommorrow
Sure, it can be hard, but what is the worst thing that can happen, she can say "no", that is all. You need to learn that women are humans too, they eat, sh!t, and do all that other stuff guys do.
 

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that's the thing when it comes to talking GoD blessed me with the smoothest mouth but deep down i never think im good enough and i always push girls away....i've known so many girls who liked me and i see it in there eyes....but I'm always pushing....that's why im so scared not cuz i can talk to her but because...i don't know im AFC but at the same time i have a little don juan...i guess that's why i came to this site...to talk about dis with similar pplz
 
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