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Do I hand my number to busy worker?

noneitis

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There's a shy girl who I think is into me, that I see for only a few seconds, 3 days a week when I work (I don't work with her)

She always responsive to a quick chat and seems interested, but I never see her alone to ask for her number.
Also her boss is always working near her and doesn't seem to like her to chat for long as they stay busy.

So I never get the chance to get her number, as I don't think she'd like me asking in front of the staff and boss working.

It is possible I could give her my number on a piece of paper or something, but what do you guys think about doing this?

Thanks guys
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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There's a shy girl who I think is into me, that I see for only a few seconds, 3 days a week when I work (I don't work with her)

She always responsive to a quick chat and seems interested, but I never see her alone to ask for her number.
Also her boss is always working near her and doesn't seem to like her to chat for long as they stay busy.

So I never get the chance to get her number, as I don't think she'd like me asking in front of the staff and boss working.

It is possible I could give her my number on a piece of paper or something, but what do you guys think about doing this?

Thanks guys
Don't do it when she is busy. Nothing is more unromantic or unappealing than not knowing time and place.
Also Ask her for hers. This will help you gauge real interest level and it shows you can take charge and be a man.

If when she gives you her number then you know she has interest. If you give her yours it shows you are too scared to ask for hers.

Girls are attracted to guys who go.after what they want.

Giving her yours anything could happen. She might call. Doubt she will because women want a man to lead. She could lose your number. Then what? She might throw it away. Same result. You got nothing.

Get hers. This will tell you how interested she is, when she gives it to you and you call and set dates
 

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There's a shy girl who I think is into me, that I see for only a few seconds, 3 days a week when I work (I don't work with her)

She always responsive to a quick chat and seems interested, but I never see her alone to ask for her number.
Also her boss is always working near her and doesn't seem to like her to chat for long as they stay busy.

So I never get the chance to get her number, as I don't think she'd like me asking in front of the staff and boss working.

It is possible I could give her my number on a piece of paper or something, but what do you guys think about doing this?

Thanks guys
Girls likes to speak about boys one with another. You maybe think she's a good soul but you dont know whom she speak to. This thing with the paper might hurt your reputation at job, as this is too direct and indirect at the same time (no earlier flirting)
 
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Ok thanks guys, I'll see what I can do. To be honest I've been trying to get her when shes on her own to ask for her number, but its been a couple months and she's been busy every time and with co workers near.
Her IL seems to get higher from brief chats etc, but I don't want to wait too long.

So if I can't speak to her away from her boss by the end of this week, I guess I'll hand my number on a paper and just be prepared for nothing to come from it.
 

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Absolutely you should give it to her. Writing something down on a piece of paper and handing it to someone who is busy, while saying little or nothing, is the respectful way to communicate.
 
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