Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do i cut first or bulk first?

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I've decided i want to give DIESELS work-out schedule a shot. Last couple years I've not really been doing a steady work-out routine anymore because of work and health related issues. Now I've got more time and recovering from my affliction so i want to hit the gym hard again.

The deal is that I've lost a lot of muscle over the years and gotten a little soggy around the midsection (ugh). According to a bf% calculation i have about 25% body fat ATM which is a bit much for my taste. But it seems to be my natural 'form' when I'm not working out.

When i first started working out i was able to get results pretty quickly. I gained a good 50% muscle mass on all major muscle groups that i was working on ( chest, bis, tris, shoulders) over a course of about 4.5 months. Which i considered to be fairly fast. I was lifting hard 5 times a week with little to no cardio (i hate cardio). I never really got 'cut' but didn't really care all that much.

Now I'm still on the 25% body fat but without the muscle, he he. So i want to bulk up again.

Now my question is. Should i bulk first, up my calories and hit the gym hard or should i start cutting first?

Like i said in my post, I've gotten fair results before with my current bf% and by working out hard and eating well.

So what do you guys think? Better for me to cut first and lose some of my body fat or better to keep it for now and use it to bulk up faster?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1. If something has worked for you in the past, stick with it.

2. You can easily lose your fat and gain muscle at the same time.

3. Train legs and back.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
2. You can easily lose your fat and gain muscle at the same time.
Oh hmmm? How would that work?
 

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search for the exact phrase "lose gain muscle" [fat is too short for the searching program]

after that.... read the first 10 threads that are not double/silverwex/lifeforce's threads.

if you did it right, thread #10 is DIESEL's cutting thread...

that should give you plenty of info.
 

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Originally posted by semag
search for the exact phrase "lose gain muscle" [fat is too short for the searching program]

after that.... read the first 10 threads that are not double/silverwex/lifeforce's threads.

if you did it right, thread #10 is DIESEL's cutting thread...

that should give you plenty of info.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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