"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do i cut first or bulk first?

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Right...

I've decided i want to give DIESELS work-out schedule a shot. Last couple years I've not really been doing a steady work-out routine anymore because of work and health related issues. Now I've got more time and recovering from my affliction so i want to hit the gym hard again.

The deal is that I've lost a lot of muscle over the years and gotten a little soggy around the midsection (ugh). According to a bf% calculation i have about 25% body fat ATM which is a bit much for my taste. But it seems to be my natural 'form' when I'm not working out.

When i first started working out i was able to get results pretty quickly. I gained a good 50% muscle mass on all major muscle groups that i was working on ( chest, bis, tris, shoulders) over a course of about 4.5 months. Which i considered to be fairly fast. I was lifting hard 5 times a week with little to no cardio (i hate cardio). I never really got 'cut' but didn't really care all that much.

Now I'm still on the 25% body fat but without the muscle, he he. So i want to bulk up again.

Now my question is. Should i bulk first, up my calories and hit the gym hard or should i start cutting first?

Like i said in my post, I've gotten fair results before with my current bf% and by working out hard and eating well.

So what do you guys think? Better for me to cut first and lose some of my body fat or better to keep it for now and use it to bulk up faster?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1. If something has worked for you in the past, stick with it.

2. You can easily lose your fat and gain muscle at the same time.

3. Train legs and back.
 

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
2. You can easily lose your fat and gain muscle at the same time.
Oh hmmm? How would that work?
 

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search for the exact phrase "lose gain muscle" [fat is too short for the searching program]

after that.... read the first 10 threads that are not double/silverwex/lifeforce's threads.

if you did it right, thread #10 is DIESEL's cutting thread...

that should give you plenty of info.
 

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Originally posted by semag
search for the exact phrase "lose gain muscle" [fat is too short for the searching program]

after that.... read the first 10 threads that are not double/silverwex/lifeforce's threads.

if you did it right, thread #10 is DIESEL's cutting thread...

that should give you plenty of info.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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