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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Do i contact her

PeterCrouch

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Ok gal with bf - i spoke to her last night, mentioned i had a faire going on friday night and needed some help running a stall, she said it would be fun but she had no way of getting there, which is fair enough, so i said let me know if u can come

i havent spoke to her today do i contact her or do i let her contact me?

Cheers

as you can see im kinda desperate for an answer!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well i didnt contact her and she didnt contact me no worries i thought, half way through the night i sent her a text saying

"your missing out on so much fun, were in charge of the bouncey castle haha!"

no reply from her ahwell, shouldnt read to much into it should i?
 

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Cheers, thats fair enough, i did have a cool time with a mate who came along,

so how do i act around her next time i speak/talk to her?

do i ask her out again somewhere else?
 

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well she sent me a text about 10mins ago saying hello, did you have lots of fun yesterday? i bet you had ago on the bouncey slide didnt ya ;)

should i reply and if so how?

would this be good?

of course i did! me and my mate had a great time! loads of fun! what did ya get up2 then?
 

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Nah i have a feeling shes at work atm anyway but i got some other advice told to not text her back and just leave it till i speak to her which will either be on msn tonite or some point on monday
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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