"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok gal with bf - i spoke to her last night, mentioned i had a faire going on friday night and needed some help running a stall, she said it would be fun but she had no way of getting there, which is fair enough, so i said let me know if u can come

i havent spoke to her today do i contact her or do i let her contact me?

Cheers

as you can see im kinda desperate for an answer!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well i didnt contact her and she didnt contact me no worries i thought, half way through the night i sent her a text saying

"your missing out on so much fun, were in charge of the bouncey castle haha!"

no reply from her ahwell, shouldnt read to much into it should i?
 

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Cheers, thats fair enough, i did have a cool time with a mate who came along,

so how do i act around her next time i speak/talk to her?

do i ask her out again somewhere else?
 

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well she sent me a text about 10mins ago saying hello, did you have lots of fun yesterday? i bet you had ago on the bouncey slide didnt ya ;)

should i reply and if so how?

would this be good?

of course i did! me and my mate had a great time! loads of fun! what did ya get up2 then?
 

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Nah i have a feeling shes at work atm anyway but i got some other advice told to not text her back and just leave it till i speak to her which will either be on msn tonite or some point on monday
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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