"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do i contact her

PeterCrouch

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Ok gal with bf - i spoke to her last night, mentioned i had a faire going on friday night and needed some help running a stall, she said it would be fun but she had no way of getting there, which is fair enough, so i said let me know if u can come

i havent spoke to her today do i contact her or do i let her contact me?

Cheers

as you can see im kinda desperate for an answer!
 

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PeterCrouch

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Well i didnt contact her and she didnt contact me no worries i thought, half way through the night i sent her a text saying

"your missing out on so much fun, were in charge of the bouncey castle haha!"

no reply from her ahwell, shouldnt read to much into it should i?
 

PeterCrouch

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Cheers, thats fair enough, i did have a cool time with a mate who came along,

so how do i act around her next time i speak/talk to her?

do i ask her out again somewhere else?
 

PeterCrouch

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well she sent me a text about 10mins ago saying hello, did you have lots of fun yesterday? i bet you had ago on the bouncey slide didnt ya ;)

should i reply and if so how?

would this be good?

of course i did! me and my mate had a great time! loads of fun! what did ya get up2 then?
 

PeterCrouch

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Nah i have a feeling shes at work atm anyway but i got some other advice told to not text her back and just leave it till i speak to her which will either be on msn tonite or some point on monday
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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