frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I know that when you # close you are supposed to get her home number. when I call her to set-up a date. Do I call from my home or cell?
does it matter?
thanks
does it matter?
thanks
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DO i call from home or cell?
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Dukester
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honestly why does it really matter.
If you use your cell alot then call w/ that number.
If you call from your home, she will know taht. if you arent the only one who answers your home phone, then use the cell.
If you use your cell alot then call w/ that number.
If you call from your home, she will know taht. if you arent the only one who answers your home phone, then use the cell.
Honestly, even the "get her home number" advice is a little outdated now. Most people use their cell phone much more often. If a girl gives you her cell number and you tell her to give you her home number instead, she would probably find it creepy.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
I thought the same thing..when I read that..Im like i know its only been a few yrs since the home number was prominent.
but no one i know calls from there home..not friends, or my dates or gf';s
even my 74 yr old grandma calls me from her cell.
but no one i know calls from there home..not friends, or my dates or gf';s
even my 74 yr old grandma calls me from her cell.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
that's pretty funny. my grandparents still use the regular telephoneOriginally posted by frivolousz21
even my 74 yr old grandma calls me from her cell.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I wouldn't call it creepy. Doc Love's "Ask for Home Number" is outdated. Most girls carry their cell phone like a piece of jewelry so reaching them (even they they pretend not to acknowledge their calls or voicemails, stupid h0s) is pretty easy.Originally posted by Interpol
Honestly, even the "get her home number" advice is a little outdated now. Most people use their cell phone much more often. If a girl gives you her cell number and you tell her to give you her home number instead, she would probably find it creepy.
But asking for another alternate means of communication like email/IM would be a good idea. I usually ask for the cell number and then later on, her email address.
well Doc love did mention that, when you call a chick on her cell, she could probably be out, doing something, being buzy with her friends and she wouldn't pay you full attention to what you are saying, like she would if you catch her at home. It does make some sense.
There are a few times when someone calls on my cell phone, and I can't hear them because of traffic, I am too distracted by driving and pay half attension, or sometimes I get cut off in the middle because of poor reception. All that nonesense disappear when I talk from home.
There are a few times when someone calls on my cell phone, and I can't hear them because of traffic, I am too distracted by driving and pay half attension, or sometimes I get cut off in the middle because of poor reception. All that nonesense disappear when I talk from home.
m4a1
Senior Don Juan
man you guys over-analyze everything. who gives a dam if it's a home or a cell? it doesn't indicate the amount of interest.
1- if she's really interested in you, she may give you the cell # just to make sure she's there when you call (incase she's not home)
2- if she gives you a home #, it's more stable, and she can't ignore you (especially if she has room mates or an answering machine)
it don't matter, folks
..and it definitely don't matter if you call her from your home or your cell, frivolousz21.
unless you have a cool number like 555-6666 on your home #, then that may be "interesting", other than that... it don't matter, lol
1- if she's really interested in you, she may give you the cell # just to make sure she's there when you call (incase she's not home)
2- if she gives you a home #, it's more stable, and she can't ignore you (especially if she has room mates or an answering machine)
it don't matter, folks
..and it definitely don't matter if you call her from your home or your cell, frivolousz21.
unless you have a cool number like 555-6666 on your home #, then that may be "interesting", other than that... it don't matter, lol