"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DO i call from home or cell?

frivolousz21

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I know that when you # close you are supposed to get her home number. when I call her to set-up a date. Do I call from my home or cell?

does it matter?


thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dukester

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honestly why does it really matter.
If you use your cell alot then call w/ that number.
If you call from your home, she will know taht. if you arent the only one who answers your home phone, then use the cell.
 

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Honestly, even the "get her home number" advice is a little outdated now. Most people use their cell phone much more often. If a girl gives you her cell number and you tell her to give you her home number instead, she would probably find it creepy.
 

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I thought the same thing..when I read that..Im like i know its only been a few yrs since the home number was prominent.

but no one i know calls from there home..not friends, or my dates or gf';s
even my 74 yr old grandma calls me from her cell.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJ_Dork

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Originally posted by Interpol
Honestly, even the "get her home number" advice is a little outdated now. Most people use their cell phone much more often. If a girl gives you her cell number and you tell her to give you her home number instead, she would probably find it creepy.
I wouldn't call it creepy. Doc Love's "Ask for Home Number" is outdated. Most girls carry their cell phone like a piece of jewelry so reaching them (even they they pretend not to acknowledge their calls or voicemails, stupid h0s) is pretty easy.

But asking for another alternate means of communication like email/IM would be a good idea. I usually ask for the cell number and then later on, her email address.
 

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well Doc love did mention that, when you call a chick on her cell, she could probably be out, doing something, being buzy with her friends and she wouldn't pay you full attention to what you are saying, like she would if you catch her at home. It does make some sense.

There are a few times when someone calls on my cell phone, and I can't hear them because of traffic, I am too distracted by driving and pay half attension, or sometimes I get cut off in the middle because of poor reception. All that nonesense disappear when I talk from home.
 

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man you guys over-analyze everything. who gives a dam if it's a home or a cell? it doesn't indicate the amount of interest.

1- if she's really interested in you, she may give you the cell # just to make sure she's there when you call (incase she's not home)
2- if she gives you a home #, it's more stable, and she can't ignore you (especially if she has room mates or an answering machine)

it don't matter, folks
..and it definitely don't matter if you call her from your home or your cell, frivolousz21.
unless you have a cool number like 555-6666 on your home #, then that may be "interesting", other than that... it don't matter, lol
 
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